5 Love Languages Test

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blueorchidjd

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blueorchidjd

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u all are lame. post your responses lol
 
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Tintin

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Lame? There's not even one hour between your two posts! How are people meant to reply within that time?

I don't know how accurate mine is. I did the Singles survey. I answered the questions in relation to my family and friends. Some questions I didn't answer but went for the alternative because I haven't been in a romantic relationship and ever experienced them (holding hands, kissing etc.).

Here's mine:

Quality Time - 10 (I don't think this is quite right. Maybe it should be an 8)
Physical Touch - 8
Words of Affirmation - 6 (This probably should be an 8)
Receiving Gifts - 4 (Maybe this should be a 2)
Acts of Service - 2 (Maybe a 4 is closer to the truth)
 
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Ugly

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Uhh... you do realize that the majority of the regulars aren't even on the forums right now. They're asleep or getting ready for work and likely don't have time to sit and take a test. Consider the time you post things before criticizing people. I was going to come in here to take it and post it, but i''ve changed my mind after seeing the attitude.
 
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  • 7 Words of Affirmation
  • 11 Quality Time
  • 2 Receiving Gifts
  • 3 Acts of Service
  • 7 Physical Touch

Yep that's about right. It's too bad most of these are tough to express over the internet. Well we can all give each other lots of words of affirmation I guess. And gifts can be sent to….. oh wait, those don't make me feel particularly loved apparently.
 
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  • 10 Words of Affirmation
  • 9 Quality Time
  • 6 Physical Touch
  • 4 Acts of Service
  • 1 Receiving Gifts
 
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kenthomas27

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10 Words of Affirmation
11 Quality Time
0 Receiving Gifts
4 Acts of Service
5 Physical Touch
 
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BananaPie

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12 Quality Time
8 Physical Touch
5 Acts of Service
3 Words of Affirmation
2 Receiving Gifts
 
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  • 7Words of Affirmation
  • 10Quality Time
  • 2Receiving Gifts
  • 3Acts of Service
  • 8Physical Touch
 
Fenner

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Ugly said:
Uhh... you do realize that the majority of the regulars aren't even on the forums right now. They're asleep or getting ready for work and likely don't have time to sit and take a test. Consider the time you post things before criticizing people. I was going to come in here to take it and post it, but i''ve changed my mind after seeing the attitude.
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Ugly, I'm pretty sure she was kidding, Blueorchijd has never been rude to anyone as far as I've seen.
 
DuchessAimee

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11 Receiving Gifts

8 Words of Affirmation (this should be higher. I need words of affirmation quite a bit.)


8 Quality Time


1 Acts of Service


2 Physical Touch (this seems inaccurate. I enjoy physical touch, but I don't need it to know I'm loved.)
 
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Your Scores


  • 9 Words of Affirmation
  • 8 Quality Time
  • 7 Physical Touch
  • 4 Acts of Service
  • 2 Receiving Gifts

Seems legit.
 
CatHerder

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[h=4]Your Scores[/h]My scores:

8 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
2 Receiving Gifts
2 Acts of Service
8 Physical Touch

...but it's still okay to do stuff for me and give me presents :eek:
 
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DarlinNadia

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3 Words of Affirmation
2 Quality Time
0 Receiving Gifts
24 Acts of Service
1 Physical Touch

Yeah, don't touch me, don't spend time with me, and don't buy me gifts... But I do like to hear I'm loved and I feel loved when someone makes my tea for me. (Interestingly, when my ex husband stopped making my tea, I knew our relationship was over)

What is more interesting is to find out how you SHOW love to others. Clearly, I have a double standard.

8 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
4 Giving Gifts
2 Acts of Service
6 Physical Touch

My daughter's love language is physical touch, i have to force myself to hug her and fluffy up her hair or let her be physically close.. cuddly .. etc


I posted my results from memory... and guestimated how I treat others. wish there was a nice survey to show us how we give/show love to others.
 
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First I slap blue with a peanut butter slathered deer hoof for stealing my topic!
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9 Quality Time
1 Receiving Gifts
3 Acts of Service
9 Physical Touch
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DarlinNadia

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  • 8Words of Affirmation
  • 5Quality Time
  • 1Receiving Gifts
  • 12Acts of Service
  • 4Physical Touch
  • these were my real results.


I think everyone should take the test again ... only this time.. .think about how you show love to others and see how you show love
 
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DarlinNadia

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DarlinNadia said:
  • 8Words of Affirmation
  • 5Quality Time
  • 1Receiving Gifts
  • 12Acts of Service
  • 4Physical Touch
  • these were my real results.


I think everyone should take the test again ... only this time.. .think about how you show love to others and see how you show love
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what I do for others...

legit response

  • 9Words of Affirmation
  • 10Quality Time
  • 2Receiving Gifts
  • 2Acts of Service
  • 7Physical Touch
 
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GodIsSalvation

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Well I'm gonna be upfront and say I dont put much stock in silly internet tests. But for some reason I just love answering them lol.

So here's my results. Might have a few nuances with the results personally, but I'd say by the test's parameters its not too far off from teh truth:

6 Words of Affirmation
12 Quality Time
1 Receiving Gifts
5 Acts of Service
6 Physical Touch

(Also I like Nadia's idea of answering from the paradigm of how you would react to the questions being applied to another. So I will go take the test again and post those results in a short moment.)
 
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GodIsSalvation

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(Sorry for double post)

Here's the results of the test from the Other Person Paradigm (I personally read each question from the view point of "she would..." replacing "I would..." from assumption that is what I'd expect a potential love interest to answer to fit the paradigm.)

The results from the paradigm standpoint are:

7 Words of Affirmation
7 Quality Time
3 Receiving Gifts
6 Acts of Service
7 Physical Touch

So basically my breakdown of both results are you can show me ya love me just by putting up with me and talking to me. And the sort of woman I would be desirous of would enjoy spending time with me as equally as she should enjoy me serenading her with love poems and kisses lol. Didn't really need a test to tell me that so much, but it does put somethings into perspective I suppose like I guess you shouldn't date me if you are like santa clause giving out gifts (cause I am suspicious when people try to give me gifts thinking they are just trying to bribe my favor or for some reason even when I know they're not actually trying to bribe me I feel embarassed when someone buys me gifts since I ain't rich enough to repay.)

Anyways, just my own personal thoughts about me personally in reflection to this test. Kudos for the topic either way though, very interesting test for personal reflection and study of the CC.com citizens' mindsets in my opinion.
 
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