Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?

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Dothack on top of what i mentioned back on page 17 I encourage you that while you're still single to make the best of this season of life that you're in right now. Get in the word and get close to God and be of good faith. Be still and know that He is God. And when your time comes He will provide. He is all powerful and all knowing. He can do what we cannot. Get in the Word and pray. Spend time getting closer to Him. Draw near to Him and He will provide. As I said before wait upon the Lord. His timing is perfect. Even in the season that I'm in now God is the number one focus in my life. Take full advantage of what He has put in front of you and greet this opportunity with open arms. It's something you won't regret doing. Your life will take off and when the opportunity comes for you to let your feet leave the ledge and spread your wings and fly you will soar. Getting close to Him on such a level that you've never been on before is so awesome. I can't stress it enough. Get close to Him. Pray and get in the Word.
 
dothackzero said:
So yeah, is One Piece still awesome in the manga. :p

Also give me a yes or no answer to this part. Has Crocodile made another apprence in Impel Dawn?
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Come on, you can't avoid it man. I want you to think about all I said seriously. it's a serious thing that can seriously affect your spiritual relationship with God.
 
Kakashi said:
Come on, you can't avoid it man. I want you to think about all I said seriously. it's a serious thing that can seriously affect your spiritual relationship with God.
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yeah, I read it. That's also why I'm concentraiting more on getting more friends that are girls, then just a girlfriend.

Anyway, has Crocodile made another apprence in Impel Dawn?
 
theowlight said:
You sound so cool and interesting. I dont really understand why you dont have many girls after you. If you can look into groups of peep with the same interests. Witty intellligent conversations can scare some girls off or turn some girls on to you. Having confidence is SO IMPORTANT. Even if you can try to fake the confidence, that is a good idea. You already have the cool personality, so be confident in that...most girls are not as COOL as you true dat. Just because they are pretty or dress well, mayby they do not know alot about things in general and are insecure about intelligent things...mayby you can use that to your advantage.
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So, witty intelligent conversations scare girls off. Makes sense why they don't want to talk to me. Also makes sense why I don't have much respect for girls.

I am always going to be me. I am an intellectual. I like Sherlock Holmes, 19th century England, mystery books, classical novels, science, history, politics, philosophical discussions. If girls my age think that is uncool and they want themselves a playboy who is like suuuuuuuuper hot,and like a suuuuper idiot, who is obsessed with sports and gets high or drunk on a daily basis. Look seriously who needs them?

Enjoy being cheated on. They just lost a very honest loyal guy who would never cheat. But hey, I seem to be getting a vibe that most girls actually like being cheated on because it gives them something to talk about with their friends. ;)
 
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Also wanted to add this in the last post.

After all isn't that all girls talk about. Smoking cigarettes while saying the word like over 9000 times a second, and discussing how their 156th boyfriend cheated on them while acting like they are princesses from the show my super sweet sixteen. Oh yea you’re like totally better than the entire like world. Like totally. All the guys would kill themselves to get you. Aha.

How perfectly the last paragraph describes the only GF I ever had. Gotta love how she rolled her eyes when she found out I have Tchaikovsky on my mp3 player. I actually laughed inside. ;)

Goes back to listening to Chopin. ;)

 
Sorry wanted to add something else. The limit on editing a post is well limiting.

I wanted to add, Dothackzero, you see my avatar. That same gf who I talked about in the last post took that picture. We went to Crimea Ukraine which is a really beautiful place. Imagine something like the French Riviera + Greece combined.

We went to many interesting and beautiful places. She was bored in Nikitsky Gardens, she was bored in the three palaces we went to (palaces of former Russian tsars) she was bored everywhere. She would rather be in a night club where should could flirt with 100 other guys than hang out with me. She is a typical conformist moron like 95% of young females in modern society. All she has is looks. No substance. Empty inside.

So Dothackzero do you really want ALL THAT this badly? Do you want to experience what I experienced? Do you want to be left with so much hatred and anger that you don't know where to put it, and you pray to God it goes away?

Seriously you are lucky you don't have a GF. Most of them are not worth caring about.

Sorry I had to bring a little dose of reality to this discussion, not everything is honey and poesies in a golden meadow. The real world is carnal and evil.
 
God has a plan for you; we don't get what we want all the time. Just have faith and everything will fall in place. :)
 
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eugenius said:
Sorry wanted to add something else. The limit on editing a post is well limiting.

I wanted to add, Dothackzero, you see my avatar. That same gf who I talked about in the last post took that picture. We went to Crimea Ukraine which is a really beautiful place. Imagine something like the French Riviera + Greece combined.

We went to many interesting and beautiful places. She was bored in Nikitsky Gardens, she was bored in the three palaces we went to (palaces of former Russian tsars) she was bored everywhere. She would rather be in a night club where should could flirt with 100 other guys than hang out with me. She is a typical conformist moron like 95% of young females in modern society. All she has is looks. No substance. Empty inside.

So Dothackzero do you really want ALL THAT this badly? Do you want to experience what I experienced? Do you want to be left with so much hatred and anger that you don't know where to put it, and you pray to God it goes away?

Seriously you are lucky you don't have a GF. Most of them are not worth caring about.

Sorry I had to bring a little dose of reality to this discussion, not everything is honey and poesies in a golden meadow. The real world is carnal and evil.
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I totally agree with you eugenius! How could you be bored in such a beautiful place?! Finding a Godly opposite (as it were) is very difficult indeed! I think as has been mentioned countless times in this discussion that you are better off focusing on your relationship with God, essentially becoming the best man you can be before God. I too would like to find the right woman, however the simple truth is that it is not going to happen anytime soon. Pray about it? Absolutely! But try not to obsess over it. Ask God to give you the strength to help cope with your loniless and try(!) to focus on your walk with Him as well as dealing with the day-to-day things you would usually have to deal with. Bye they way eugenius, see you like Tchaikovsky, I very much like Rachmaninov!
 
I like most classical music. But I also like jazz, reggae, heavy metal, and old school rap. Rachmaninov is great too. ;)

Anyway I just had to let it out. Most people suck, thats why I came to this forum. Christians are at least moving in the right direction. My gf wasnt a real christian. In fact she believed in supersitious nonsense and horoscopes and all that. Thats the last time I try any girl who isnt a christian.
 
It's true! I must admit at times I'm a bit of a Christian misanthropist!
 
Lift weights until you puke. Dont shower Act retarded. Eat with your mouth open. Its better to make a bad impression than no impression at all. The girls will wonder whats wrong with you . Then tell them what you said in your opening line
 
Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding. Proverbs 17:28
 
Marcus2x2 said:
Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding. Proverbs 17:28
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Or people can think you;re stupid or you can open your mouth and prove them right haha
 
Let them think as they wish! The worse this world gets, the less inclined I feel like saying anything!
 
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dothackzero, our wishes are often not God's will as well, just trust Him and keep in mind that He has the best for you, maybe a gf is not what u really need right know, pray to know His will for you
 
Do you think that there would be a lot of girls in a phycology and a Business Communications class? I doubt there's gonna be any girls or atleast girls my age in the 3D animation and Intro to Web Programming classes I'm planning on taking. I really think part of my problem is that I'm not around that many girls right now... :(
 
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