There is a reason I stay out of the Bible discussion forum. It has something to do with this thread, hubris, understanding and intellectualism.
Some people only like having fun, keeping it simple, keeping it light and not everyone is equipped for that or satisfied with its results. We are all wired differently.
If I'm talking to someone about something we are both passionate about, the language changes and we may use words people are less than familiar with. But much like jump rope, to get into the conversation, you have to understand what is going on.
Relationships can be a lot like jump rope too, there has to be a mutual understanding of what is important and if someone doesn't share the same feelings about how its played one or both of you are going to have a bad time. If you are running into a wall of people who don't share your values intellectually or otherwise, sometimes its best not to try to meet them in the middle, but simply let them go their own way. We are all wired differently.
Not everyone is compatible but, compatibility does not necessarily rely on same-ness. Finding someone who values what you like about yourself and in whom you can value their strengths is the key. They might be smarter, more responsible, more compassionate, or more outgoing but, its only when they seek to hold that against you that it becomes a problem. And we are all wired differently.
EDIT: of* to or*
