I wonder why we don't see threads on here saying "Fornication is an abomination...." Or adultery Why are we always harping on homosexuality when there are far more fornicators an adulterers out there.
I am now inspired! jk
In all seriousness, though, I think the reason we "make a big deal about it" is because everyone else is. I'm not saying that that is good or bad. I am saying that we have started participating in something that has no foreseeable end. A series of "tit for tat" exchanges if you will.
"I'm a homosexual"
"God says homosexuality is a sin"
"You're a bigot and I don't want you in my life"
"God still says homosexuality is a sin and I'm sorry you feel that way"
enter another Homosexual or a supporter of homosexuality:
"God does not say that it is wrong"
"yes he does here here and here"
"God also killed thousands of babies and had Israel rape women and also says to stone people for sinning"
"Those references are taken out of context let me show you..."
enter atheist and so on and so on and so on and no one comes out of it closer to God and the homosexual is more likely to rebel against God now than before the conversation.