I have tried dating sites back before and after my marriage and saw big differences. Most today are paying sites. Back then were great!!
I did not like Christian Mingle because of paying site. So are eharmony, match.com, etc. There was another Christian site I really liked but Christian Cafe bought them out. I did not like that.
ChristianDatingForFree is good but it is cliche however, more members who are Filipinas were after me. No offense Filipinas!! I love you all but I was trying to explain here about CDFF. It seems Filipinas were after me but NO American women!! I do not understand. But also the MUCH older women there liked me at CDFF. Not liking their choices there at all. I also had bad experience with someone who said she loved me back in 2003 in AOL Christian Chat but she was 17 at the time and I told her to come back when she is older.. I was not going to wait for her. I met my then wife and moved on. But in 2010,.. bad experience! She found me and blah blah at me.. so immature!! And she would not give me a chance. She was oh.. But um, secretly told some of my friends in that site that she found out that I am Deaf and does not want to marry a Deaf person. That really hurts. That shows she is not a Christian. Because of all that, CDFF was out. This site is perfect if you want a Filipina to marry to. Not an American.
Christianet is.. pretty dead. It used to be pretty okay to talk in their chat room (java format) and now.. no because of scammers, players, and stalkers there. Many true good Christians left there. Also there is too limited numbers of photos of members there. You also would ended up with Filipina just like CDFF. Similiar.. But I liked CDFF format better.
Christiandate website.. you get more scammers there. not good one there. I had a woman on there once who even checked into my credit score! She was bad. She was not a scammer but a destroyer.. that is a new kind of criminal whom they would be real person, unlike scammer with the grammar and the way she talks. She is real but wanted to know more about me by doing that!!? its None of her business. so please becareful.
I heard people do find people thru Facebook. You can try that.. its free.
This site has most realistic people. No, it is not a dating site however, about 100 couples are met thru this site. I am meeting some nice ladies and getting to know them. I am praying and see where God leads this for me. This is best site by far because I get to meet AMERICAN Christian women AND foreign Christian women. But also I get to meet the brothers in Christ here too. Just warn you though, you will still get to meet scammers here. I caught one and she got the boot. Another one here.. she is real person but had to disassociate from her for good reasons. So, becareful on this site as well as anywhere.
OKCupid is not good. You had to answer questions and you get results sometimes you do NOT want. The more you get into it, the harder you find your mate. I had tried there before and I get scammers there. Maybe one or two true ones. But nothing budding for me there. I had to quit.. long before the controversy about two weeks ago that OKCupid is showing its anti-Christian policy. I put that company on my blacklist.
Match.com.. paid site.. no go.
I tried dating sites for Deaf. They cost money.. None are free.
You could try Passions but Passions have every single ethic group there is. or hobby or background, or anything. I get no results there at all. Not that good.
I had my own dating service called United Christian Singles Network or UCSN for locals to focus on in person, not online. Problem is that no one wants to do it. They want online! I was trying to focus on old fashioned way like I did with my ex wife.
I perhaps may end up marrying one who is not from online. You see, besides my ex wife, I attended a Deaf Christian conference in Florida and I saw this wow!!! This beautiful Deaf Christian woman in 2001. So, I met her at the conference and learned that she lives in Miami, FL. After my adult career training program where I graduated in AutoCAD, I moved down there and it was great till we broke up because she blamed me for not able to find work in Miami during 2002. I moved back in August 2002 after 8 months in Miami. Then, I came home, I was introduced to this CT woman online who became my stalker.
I noticed that in past 15 years that I am more likely successful to have relationship with someone in person than online. No offense ladies.. We just have to work harder having online relationship.
Hey, I even have my website up regarding about my future bride.. my testimony about that. I guess you will have to wait till my autobiography is published to understand everything.