I am not adding anything. You refuse to understand. You've shown your refusal by misinterpreting about everything anyone has said that you don't agree with. You know I adore you but good grief man!sorry sis. But that is not how I see it.
If we are saved at water baptism, than it is above all other obedience to Gods commands.
without belief, all obedience is meaningless.
When you realise your adding a work of man to the gospel of Christ.
It is true we are saved by grace, and not works, but keep in mind is was a WORK that gave us the grace in the first place. Jesus at the cross was in obedience. Without that we would have no grace.