I am a Desperate 28 yr old Man seeking a Desperate Woman to Marry

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28Man_Seeking_Wife

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For those angry feminatzis or neutered pro-feminatzi men who think you will be clever by insulting me for this post, haha I don't give a what you think :)

I AM desperate! Do truly Godly young women even exist in our culture who are not corrupted by anti-Christian ways of viewing the world?

The so called "right to choose" which is consonant with the secular feminist movement says that my future wife should abort our child if she so wishes, or have her tubes tied, or divorce me at a moment's notice without an afterthought. The secular new-age modern atheistic agenda has brainwashed women into thinking that a wife and mother should dump off her children at the baby sitter and gain prestige for herself in a career instead of being present to the children as a mother in the home...

I am DESPERATELY wondering if such a young woman exists anymore who sees these evils for what they are (and who does not believe them to be "progress" and "equality")??

If so, send me a message, maybe we can get married and make some kids!!

Sincerely,
28Man_Seeking_Wife
 
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I'm not sure whether or not to think you're desperate, immature or both. I mean no offense at all, but this is ChristianChat. It's not called, ChristianDate or anything like that. And you speak of people being anti-Christian, yet I'm sure there's some Christians who would say that the use of profanity are not very Christianly. But I'm sure if you pray hard enough, God will bring a wonderful Christian girl into your life. Hope everything works out. God bless.
 
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I have some excellent news!

I think if you say you are desperate, and you're looking for a girl who is desperate...
there is almost a 100% chance you WILL INDEED meet a girl who is totally desperate!

My congratulations in advance.
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kenthomas27

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Can't imagine why you're desperate! Happy hunting brother - I'm outta here friends. God bless -
 
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BugeyeSTi

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LittleBit1987

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First of all-

I am MARRIED, so therefore this "post" is nowhere near ATTRACTIVE at all.

We do not THINK "desperation" is attractive in the least.

This is a christian site, for people who are needing help, advice, to chat, and to get deeper into the word of GOD.

I'm not trying to speak for all the women out there, but to me.. Personally... this is such a bad "first impression" of what you might be like to meet in person. And I highly doubt any Mature women would be swayed to meet you with an impression like this.

Try another site if you are seriously looking for a mate.
 
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28Man_Seeking_Wife

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I have the impression that none of the people who responded read what I had to say under the title of the post...
 
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LittleBit1987

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Then change the "post" to what you really meant to say... Just sayin.
 
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28Man_Seeking_Wife

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LittleBit1987 said:
Then change the "post" to what you really meant to say... Just sayin.
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You people seem to equate "desperation" with being contrary to the prerogatives of Christianity, that to me is a mystery (shrugs)

I would say that thinking of my desire for dating/marriage as being totally in a different dimension from what "the Word of God" is-- seems pretty reductive and small-minded to me. The last I checked in the Song of Songs and in St. Paul's letter to the Ephesians, the reality of spousal love has EVERYTHING to do with 'chatting about Christianity'!

Who made you people King of 'Christian Chatting" to determine what falls inside of Christianity and what doesn't? My theological understanding is that EVERYTHING human is pertinent to salvation and the Christian message.
 
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28Man_Seeking_Wife said:
You people seem to equate "desperation" with being contrary to the prerogatives of Christianity, that to me is a mystery (shrugs)

I would say that thinking of my desire for dating/marriage as being totally in a different dimension from what "the Word of God" is-- seems pretty reductive and small-minded to me. The last I checked in the Song of Songs and in St. Paul's letter to the Ephesians, the reality of spousal love has EVERYTHING to do with 'chatting about Christianity'!

Who made you people King of 'Christian Chatting" to determine what falls inside of Christianity and what doesn't? My theological understanding is that EVERYTHING human is pertinent to salvation and the Christian message.
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You seem very distressed for some reason. Is it that you can't find someone who is ready to marry within a moment's notice or something else? I've seen you comment on other posts and you seem very hateful against many people because they don't fit your definition of Christianity. And if you say that "EVERYTHING human is pertinent to salvation and the Christian message." This may be true, but if you believe this, why so focused on ONE thing, which is marriage?
 
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28Man_Seeking_Wife

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JustBrandon said:
You seem very distressed for some reason. Is it that you can't find someone who is ready to marry within a moment's notice or something else? I've seen you comment on other posts and you seem very hateful against many people because they don't fit your definition of Christianity. And if you say that "EVERYTHING human is pertinent to salvation and the Christian message." This may be true, but if you believe this, why so focused on ONE thing, which is marriage?
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Well I would like you to show me where I have been "hateful" in my counter distinctions. Being faithful to the truth and proving a point is not being hateful.

And the reason I am so focused on one thing is because I want that one thing! Why is it that is Steve Jobs focuses on getting rich, and pursues it passionately, people applaud him. But if a chap sets out specifically to find a non-feminatzi woman, it is derided??
 
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BugeyeSTi

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28Man_Seeking_Wife said:
I have the impression that none of the people who responded read what I had to say under the title of the post...
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I get the impression that even if we did read it that it wouldn't make any difference, based on this:

28Man_Seeking_Wife said:
"For those angry feminatzis or neutered pro-feminatzi men who think you will be clever by insulting me for this post, haha I don't give a ****what you think :) "


I AM desperate! Do truly Godly young women even exist in our culture who are not corrupted by anti-Christian ways of viewing the world?
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To answer this yes there are, but they aren't going to date you. Insulting every potential mate generally isn't a great way to start a relationship.
 
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28Man_Seeking_Wife said:
Well I would like you to show me where I have been "hateful" in my counter distinctions. Being faithful to the truth and proving a point is not being hateful.

And the reason I am so focused on one thing is because I want that one thing! Why is it that is Steve Jobs focuses on getting rich, and pursues it passionately, people applaud him. But if a chap sets out specifically to find a non-feminatzi woman, it is derided??
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Calling people feminatzis isn't hateful? Steve Jobs wasn't in everyone's face and constantly saying, "I'm desperate for money. Give me money." He worked on it. You just post things on a social network and expect God to grant you the perfect "non-feminatzi" woman. I have no problem with you wanting to get married and have a wife. One of my goals is to one day get married and have a family, but I'm waiting on God. Just be patient and God will give you everything He needs you to have.
 
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28Man_Seeking_Wife said:
For those angry feminatzis or neutered pro-feminatzi men who think you will be clever by insulting me for this post, haha I don't give a damn what you think :)

I AM desperate! Do truly Godly young women even exist in our culture who are not corrupted by anti-Christian ways of viewing the world?

The so called "right to choose" which is consonant with the secular feminist movement says that my future wife should abort our child if she so wishes, or have her tubes tied, or divorce me at a moment's notice without an afterthought. The secular new-age modern atheistic agenda has brainwashed women into thinking that a wife and mother should dump off her children at the baby sitter and gain prestige for herself in a career instead of being present to the children as a mother in the home...

I am DESPERATELY wondering if such a young woman exists anymore who sees these evils for what they are (and who does not believe them to be "progress" and "equality")??

If so, send me a message, maybe we can get married and make some kids!!

Sincerely,
28Man_Seeking_Wife
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I probably should have avoided reading this thread altogether, but because I didn't I will share my thoughts.

I find your post offensive. Yours is not the first to ask the question, " are there truly Godly woman that exist?", but it is the first to annoy me. OF COURSE THERE ARE! Just because you haven't gotten your way and found the girl for you, doesn't mean they aren't out there. I know truly wonderful Godly woman here on CC and in my life outside of CC. They are truly precious woman of God and each have a unique calling.

I truly am trying not to be judgmental, but perhaps your focus should be altered. Ask yourself why you think the Lord hasn't put that girl in your life? I highly doubt it is the girls fault.

I'm not sure if your post is a joke, if you are truly frustrated (I can understand that), or if you really think there are no Godly woman left. Either way, God bless you in your search for someone desperate. I pray the Lord open your eyes to more important issues.
 
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Hmm... I'm sure that there are definitely some tension from all the debates that have occurred in previous threads started by the OP. This is debatable, but I'm just gonna throw it out there... Maybe sometimes it is best not to share our opinions and to not focus so much on being right or sharing our opinion but instead to display love.
 
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jeremyPJ

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You know, I have been through a lot of things in my life. I know that before you really know Christ, this world can seem verrrry cold. You need to go to a church, and just keep still and be there a while, and give yourself and others, and the good Lord a chance.

Being desperate, is the absolute worst vibe you can put out there ever, for anyone. I know this from many, many years ago.
I can tell you that when presenting yourself as desperate, everyone will avoid you. I'm sorry, but it is a fact.
If you were female, you would get results, yes. But certainly not good ones...
 
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