Unless your spouse is sexually unfaithful to you, they are your family, and you can't divorce them from being your family anymore than you can a child, mother, aunt, sister, brother, cousin, etc. No matter what else it is ,you just have to work it out. Jesus was loving, forgiving, and kind to those who were nailing Him to the cross, even as they were doing so He prayed for them. He wasn't looking to get away and be saved, but to stay in an attempt to save them! Is this not the person you chose to marry?