This post reminded me when I was in AA. In the recovery circle they believe that insanity it doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
Good post, and it has been what I have been doing with relationships. Another reason I am adamant to stay true to the Lord.
MissCris was saying something similar, I am probably fishing in the wrong pond.....Nailed it.
I don´t know if there is something like YMCA to expect different result on these things you invited US to share, a bit. As a matter of getting "knowledge", my brother´s GF asked me to hepl carry her luggage to the bus stop, she´s travelling to other state and she gave several tips I wish I keep in mind and, of course, these have to do with the kindness and respect several young ladies shared here.
1) She felt upset my brother was unwilling to go to the airport.
2) He rather liked to go with his friends to bet at horses races and, while each was about to be started, he would be playing dominoes with his friends, somewhere else (not their home).
3) Those briefcases were heavy, so I needed to ask her remove things, so I could the one I hardly lift (How could she be lifting all her luggage alone at both airports?)
4) She told me she wanted my brother went, with her, in that trip to visit her relatives (just because her sister is pregnant and she would need some help for 1 week, at least, and my brother and his GF are nurses).
Obviously I challanged her to keep on, to speak those things clear, because my brother is and was
accting selfishly and
unkind (He had the time to spend 3 days with her, at least, and she needs to be out of her homie chores and also wanted him to know and share with her in-laws).
She loves him! I´m happy he is enjoying his time but, when he called me to say "thanks", I told him: "Take care of her" and that I want to share my ideas with him (about her). How come we men tend to be so selfh?
She is simple, talkative and several HERE like the way she is but, we men, sometimes are too blind to see things well.
This one is not narcissisit, but
my brother instead:
He had her posponed the trip yesterday and, today, he also wanted it posponed again. What for? To get a cake baked!!!
He has de money to buy them!() for him) He should have gone
with her to help her sister (as a 2nd nurse), but he wanted to bet in horse races and play dominoes...
Please!
I´m not feminist, but
I don´t want to be goofed that way for selfishness.