Is Pornography a Deal-Breaker for You?
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Weak willed people doing weak willed things, don't blame the sin blame the sinner. Actually prolly shouldn't blame anyone at all... BUT... Yeah maybe it's cus it's diffrent with girls but I have been pretty lucky. The worst I had was an ex giggling over the kama sutra book. I don't think I'd be cool with someone bringing porn into the relationship, kinda takes out the romance ya know?
I don't beleive I just said that lol next I'll be wearing dresses....
.... Actually now that I mention it....
I don't beleive I just said that lol next I'll be wearing dresses....
.... Actually now that I mention it....
If the person was strong-willed they wouldn't be looking at porn then, would they? Without porn there would be no porn-addicts? So why can't I "blame" the porn for the fact I wouldn't date someone who viewing it and thinking it was just fine? ..it's the same with alcohol..I've had deal with alcoholism, in my family, since I was a child. So, in turn I will not permit the use of alcohol in my household (when I have my own place or get married). However, in the case of alcohol I know drinking isn't wrong, unless you use it to get drunk. BUT! I don't see in any way why porn would be a permissible thing. ..i'm not sure there is even a point to posting this haha i dont know if i'm making my point?
That's because I doubt you have struggled with an alcholic in your direct family?
I know exactlybwhat she is saying- both my parents were alcholics and later heroine adicts. On turn I hate alchol and drugs because of how it effects people.
My point earlier kiddo is not that you should tollerste it or accept it into your hone, in fact those are noble and rightious convictions and seeing that honestly put a smile on my face. What I was saying was... Don't hate it and don't blame it. It isn't worth your energy. People will always fond addictions and I know this will offend people but porn isn't addictive. The power of instant and self gratification is, in a way it's like being god. Man will always want to instantly and easily get what he wants. It's the sin of sloth.
My point is the fault lies with the sinner not the sin, and it's not fair pure and good souls mist be forced to endure the weight of sin but such is the price of love sometimes.
I know exactlybwhat she is saying- both my parents were alcholics and later heroine adicts. On turn I hate alchol and drugs because of how it effects people.
My point earlier kiddo is not that you should tollerste it or accept it into your hone, in fact those are noble and rightious convictions and seeing that honestly put a smile on my face. What I was saying was... Don't hate it and don't blame it. It isn't worth your energy. People will always fond addictions and I know this will offend people but porn isn't addictive. The power of instant and self gratification is, in a way it's like being god. Man will always want to instantly and easily get what he wants. It's the sin of sloth.
My point is the fault lies with the sinner not the sin, and it's not fair pure and good souls mist be forced to endure the weight of sin but such is the price of love sometimes.
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I 100% COMPLETELY disagree. Pornography is very addictive. I suffered from a 6 year addiction to it, and I know first hand that it is quite addictive. It is extrodinarly hard to stop. It is said that the same part of your brain that gets addicted to heroin gets addicted to porn, and they are equaly addictive.
Sexual release pumps the brain full of endorphines that have a simular impact on you as heroine but it is a natural function of the human body and thereby as god intended. Now this one goes out to all the wives out there-have you ever noticed how bitchy your hubby may get when you turn him down?
-flicks a coin and smirks-
we hate it, don't we?
I am sure a lot of girls have noticed it when they turn down their boys too. This is because we as humans have desires. I do not think that you were not adicted, I merely poise that your addiction was to your own gratification and sinful nature not the streaming video of sweaty bodies and faced mid-coitous. You knew that the only thing stopping you was you and that wasn't a good enough reason to deny yourself. Porn is instant gratification, no chance for rejection, no actual work, you can just finish yourself off in your own time, no fear of inatiquacy... It's personal power.
It's sloth. You are NOT chemically compelled like a smoker. Don't let me cut down your acheivement it's noble what you have conquerd, just recognise it wasn't porn it was the vice of sloth and pride. We live on a world where we are nornmally sheltered and can have our every desire met with a click of a button, food, sex, praise, comfort. Just name it.
We are fat and self focused, wicked and selfish living in a decidand world of mans own design to hide from god. We choose out beleif instead of trusting in him. We like what is safe... But salvation in a war. You did good but porn is just nackedness, man clothed itself in it's shame remember? Because man wanted to hide...
-flicks a coin and smirks-
we hate it, don't we?
I am sure a lot of girls have noticed it when they turn down their boys too. This is because we as humans have desires. I do not think that you were not adicted, I merely poise that your addiction was to your own gratification and sinful nature not the streaming video of sweaty bodies and faced mid-coitous. You knew that the only thing stopping you was you and that wasn't a good enough reason to deny yourself. Porn is instant gratification, no chance for rejection, no actual work, you can just finish yourself off in your own time, no fear of inatiquacy... It's personal power.
It's sloth. You are NOT chemically compelled like a smoker. Don't let me cut down your acheivement it's noble what you have conquerd, just recognise it wasn't porn it was the vice of sloth and pride. We live on a world where we are nornmally sheltered and can have our every desire met with a click of a button, food, sex, praise, comfort. Just name it.
We are fat and self focused, wicked and selfish living in a decidand world of mans own design to hide from god. We choose out beleif instead of trusting in him. We like what is safe... But salvation in a war. You did good but porn is just nackedness, man clothed itself in it's shame remember? Because man wanted to hide...
