godsgirl77,
It sounds like your husband is insecure for some reason. I do not know why, and quite possibly he doesn't either. Imo, you can look at this in one of two ways. First, you can see it as him trying to "control" you and not let you develop friendships that he finds threatening. Secondly, you can see him as a man whom is so madly in love with you that he has no wish to share you with ANYONE of the opposite sex. I have been married for 20 years. My husband has never been jealous until the last 6 months or so It honestly came out of the blue - he has no identifiable reason for feeling threatened. But, that is irrelevant. How often do you feel a certain without being able to explain WHY you feel that way It comes down to this. There is not another man on the face of the earth that would cause me to jeopardize my marriage, but that doesn't change the fact that for whatever reason - mid-life crisis or whatever, he is feeling threatened. My choice is simple....I can argue with him and tell him how wrong he is to feel that way or use this as an opportunity to show him that HE is my one and only and that I don't value another man's friendship enough to jeopardize my marriage. I'm hoping that you wanted an honesty answer. If so, that was my intention. Best of luck to you and may your marriage be blessed richly!
Blondensmart
