The two men...

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Pipp

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I was scrolling down my facebook feed today when my sister in laws post caught my eye.... this is what it said..

The Two Men

Two young men walking down a country road, happen upon an old fellow beside a covered bridge. The old man’s hat had been caught in the wind and blown atop the bridge. “Will you two help me? I can’t reach my hat. I’ve already tried and fallen several times. Now I am tired.”
The two young men looked at each oth...er. The first says, “I can get the hat!”
The other says, “Yes, you can. You are a far better climber than me.”
The man begins climbing and immediately falls on his face in front of the others. He looks up and says, “I’m a better climber than that. I will try again.”
His friend says, “Yes, you try. I am surely too clumsy and too heavy for the boards to hold me. You are light and strong. You can do it!” The man tries and fails again, each time falling harder than the last. Each time still asserting that he will get the hat.
The old man looks at the other standing beside him and says, “Your friend is tired and cut up and bruised. Are you not going to help him?”
“Oh, I want to, but like I said I’m very clumsy and too heavy. I’m humble enough to know my limitations,” he said with a chuckle.

“Or perhaps,” the old man said, “you are so prideful you think you couldn’t bare to fall on your face, and you are so weak you know that if you did you would never get up and try again. It is pride that keeps you on the ground, not humility. And it is humility which tells your friend to keep trying despite falling in the dirt twenty times. A truly humble man will fall on his face as many times as it takes to reach his goal. A prideful man sets no goals at all for fear of falling on his face.”
The young man dropped his head in shame right as his friend let out a yell of victory from the top of the bridge. He waved the hat around and tossed it to the ground. He scrambled down, shook the old man’s hand and they parted ways.
The two young men walked on down the road, one full of joy over the thing he had conquered and the other burdened under the weight of his false humility which kept him clean, unhurt and defeated.----- Sarah Reeves


I had a huge " Thou art the woman " moment. It hit me like a ton of bricks that that is exactly how I handle certain things in my life.... I even mentioned a situation to a friend on here less than a week ago where I must have sounded just like the cowardly friend. I've been using certain fears to protect me from failing . With the Lords help I will overcome these things. My question to you is...... which man are you ?
 
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In relationships with people, I am the proud man.

In everything else, I am the humble man. The only thing that pushes me to try everything is 'What if it works out well this time?' Be it learning a new language, or applying for a job, or playing a sport, this question drives me to keep trying and trying until I succeed. :)
 
Wow... Great story. This is exactly what I'm going thru right now. I have been trying to be the humble man for the past few months instead of the proud man but it hasn't happened yet... God keeps calling me and tells me it's ok if I fall on my face because all that matters is what he thinks of me and not what others see when they look at me.

I am afraid of rejection. I am afraid of screwing up and being judged... But God says," Why are you so afraid of man? Don't you love me enough to obey me?" This story hit the heart of my current struggle. I made a covenant with God and now there is no going back. I have to do this... And I will prolly end up on my face but God will be smiling over me and that is all that matters. I must keep my eyes on him alone.

For the past few months I have prayed for courage and boldness and bravery... But now I have learned that those things are not based on feelings, but based on choosing to do what God desires regardless of the fear you feel. May we all have that courage one day to climb over and over again no matter how we fall. Imagine how much more God could use us if we all had humble hearts.
 
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Dang, apparently I must spread some reputation around before giving it to Raine again :(
 
Wow... Great story. This is exactly what I'm going thru right now. I have been trying to be the humble man for the past few months instead of the proud man but it hasn't happened yet... God keeps calling me and tells me it's ok if I fall on my face because all that matters is what he thinks of me and not what others see when they look at me.

I am afraid of rejection. I am afraid of screwing up and being judged... But God says," Why are you so afraid of man? Don't you love me enough to obey me?" This story hit the heart of my current struggle. I made a covenant with God and now there is no going back. I have to do this... And I will prolly end up on my face but God will be smiling over me and that is all that matters. I must keep my eyes on him alone.

For the past few months I have prayed for courage and boldness and bravery... But now I have learned that those things are not based on feelings, but based on choosing to do what God desires regardless of the fear you feel. May we all have that courage one day to climb over and over again no matter how we fall. Imagine how much more God could use us if we all had humble hearts.

You already have a most humble heart. I do not believe that you will end up on your face. You will end up on your feet standing tall. You are right that courage, boldness and bravely are not based on feelings. These come only from God for those who love and trust Him to provide what is needed to set out on the journey that He as prepared for their lives. The only failure in life is when you are afraid to try and do nothing at all and even then God is willing and able to console you and strengthen you. Life is a series of choices, place your trust in God and ask for wisdom to know what to do and the courage act on the convictions that you have allowed God to place in your heart. You have heard God's call and have now resolved in your heart to act on this. That is the first step of your journey. It will not be the last. Go for it.
 
I was scrolling down my facebook feed today when my sister in laws post caught my eye.... this is what it said..

The Two Men

Two young men walking down a country road, happen upon an old fellow beside a covered bridge. The old man’s hat had been caught in the wind and blown atop the bridge. “Will you two help me? I can’t reach my hat. I’ve already tried and fallen several times. Now I am tired.”
The two young men looked at each oth...er. The first says, “I can get the hat!”
The other says, “Yes, you can. You are a far better climber than me.”
The man begins climbing and immediately falls on his face in front of the others. He looks up and says, “I’m a better climber than that. I will try again.”
His friend says, “Yes, you try. I am surely too clumsy and too heavy for the boards to hold me. You are light and strong. You can do it!” The man tries and fails again, each time falling harder than the last. Each time still asserting that he will get the hat.
The old man looks at the other standing beside him and says, “Your friend is tired and cut up and bruised. Are you not going to help him?”
“Oh, I want to, but like I said I’m very clumsy and too heavy. I’m humble enough to know my limitations,” he said with a chuckle.

“Or perhaps,” the old man said, “you are so prideful you think you couldn’t bare to fall on your face, and you are so weak you know that if you did you would never get up and try again. It is pride that keeps you on the ground, not humility. And it is humility which tells your friend to keep trying despite falling in the dirt twenty times. A truly humble man will fall on his face as many times as it takes to reach his goal. A prideful man sets no goals at all for fear of falling on his face.”
The young man dropped his head in shame right as his friend let out a yell of victory from the top of the bridge. He waved the hat around and tossed it to the ground. He scrambled down, shook the old man’s hand and they parted ways.
The two young men walked on down the road, one full of joy over the thing he had conquered and the other burdened under the weight of his false humility which kept him clean, unhurt and defeated.----- Sarah Reeves


I had a huge " Thou art the woman " moment. It hit me like a ton of bricks that that is exactly how I handle certain things in my life.... I even mentioned a situation to a friend on here less than a week ago where I must have sounded just like the cowardly friend. I've been using certain fears to protect me from failing . With the Lords help I will overcome these things. My question to you is...... which man are you ?

I like this a lot. God has another question for you...
 
Pipp:
Thanks for sharing this. It's thought provoking for sure. Being crippled with fear is a bad place to be in anytime.

The story brought this verse to mind for me:

2 Corinthians 12:9New King James Version (NKJV)[SUP]9 [/SUP]And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

P.S. ~ I saw some of your baked goodies on here. You are really talented.

I have been trying to be the humble man for the past few months.
Try as you may, you'll never be a man.

I couldn't resist.

 
Sometimes I'm the proud woman, others times I am the humble woman. I must say that I try to be the humble woman alot more than the prideful one!! After all, pride goes before a fall, and I HATE falling!! It hurts!! :( Especially if you land on your butt or your back, lol! :)
 
Ha, not only this is a good story but also it addresses my question on how to become humble.

You know, I'm certainly the first guy in certain things in my life whereas I am that very second guy, under the false humility and limiting myself, assuming the outcome without even giving it a try, especially in the context of relationship.

Wow, this actually hurts... and it's a good kind of hurting. Thanks Pipp
 
You're most welcome. It hit me pretty hard too... like you said... it's a good thing though.
 
Very enlightening story. Pride is a product of fear. I've been paralyzed by fear in my life too. The important thing is we are always trying and thriving to be better. I am not a very good risk taker that's why I always want to remind myself that only a person who risks is free.