You keep putting the blame on Jesus, and now saying He would be pushing it on them.
He does not force anything on people. We are given the freewill to chose the proper way to use things.
Let's get one thing straight here. I am not putting any blame on Jesus Christ because the real Jesus Christ of the Holy Scriptures would not do anything evil or contribute or influence anyone into any kind of sin. I am putting the blame on those who have cooked up a false Christ thinking that God can do evil.
For obvioulsy if I went to an elementary school and passed out intoxicating beverages to the kids, I would be doing something wrong and evil. Especially if they were unaware if the beverage was secretly spiked with alcohol so as to get them drunk. Such a thing would be wrong. Morality does not change when you switch around the scenario. Morality is a standard that is taught in the Bible that you can trust and rely upon in many different situations.
Like I mentioned before about the snakes, spiders, and plants, you justify some of them being poisonous from the sin being initiated in this world.
It's not the same scenario. The miracle was to show forth his glory (John 2:11). It was not a test or something that was the result of the fall of Adam and Eve. God was creating something beautiful and good. For they called it "good."
I pose you a question;
Couldn't God just as easily make them non-poisonous and safe to handle or eat for all ?
Yes He could, but He gives us the freewill to chose the proper way of doing things, and living our lives.
Also it says in the scriptures that for a true believer the snake will not harm him.
Again, that is not the same thing. There is a difference between choosing between right and wrong that we are faced as we grow up and learn the things of God by the Holy Scriptures and secretly adding an intoxicating wine (that was supposed to show forth His glory or goodness).