You have a good heart. I am going with neither also. I actually do not think that woman should look trashy either but that may be a result of their upbringing and environment and I am not one to judge. Despite my nonsensical posts I much prefer a modesty dressed woman. What ever the woman is wearing it is not right to look on her with lust. While I was married I made it a point to always look away and also, despite the impression that I may give I don't even believe in flirting. If I have something to say I would want to be taken sincerely. I am sorry for all of these posts and I retract everything.