How will you find a wife?

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ELECT

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Hello. I want to get marry but i dont know how to find husband who is godly person (baptist faith). Some advices?
The best choice is God choice
Genesis 24:14-17King James Version (KJV)


14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.


15 And it came to pass, before he had done speaking, that, behold, Rebekah came out, who was born to Bethuel, son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor, Abraham's brother, with her pitcher upon her shoulder.


16 And the damsel was very fair to look upon, a virgin, neither had any man known her: and she went down to the well, and filled her pitcher, and came up.


17 And the servant ran to meet her, and said, Let me, I pray thee, drink a little water of thy pitcher.
 
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arwen-undomiel

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Men- go hang out more near wells ;)

Appear thirsty.
 

cinder

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Men- go hang out more near wells ;)

Appear thirsty.
Wait. I thought the guy was supposed to buy the girl a drink at the local watering hole?

I must say this isn't a topic I worry about since I don't have any plans to find a wife.
 

Liamson

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I love this thread. And there is another one that I love too but this one is pretty amazing.


How will you find a wife? <I love this question. Seriously!


Liamson, how does it play out? In what scenario does it work? When you are ready, how will you find a good wife?



Someday, when I'm free, I will be doing something that is my element, that makes me feel alive, and she will be there in that place for the same reason doing the same thing. And that thing which moves us, which enthralls us, will be made sweeter, for having shared it together, as strangers drawn together to the same purpose and for the same experience.


I know it sounds vague, but really its not. There are so many things that make me feel alive, move me, and that I'm very good at, finding her will not be that hard. I simply have to be free. And if she is not there, at least I will still be living.



I will not scour the single's groups at churches, place want ads at eHarmony, pray that God UPS's a wife to my door or feel sorry for myself and drown my sorrows in a big ol brimmin bowl full of Baskin Robbins. Who I am does not begin and end with a relationship status, fertility goal, or societal expectation. My mother's need to beg me for grandkids is not going to drive me into the arms of Sally the Sunday School teacher. Life is too short.
 

JesusLives

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Hello. I want to get marry but i dont know how to find husband who is godly person (baptist faith). Some advices?
Have you thought of going to visit several different Baptist churches?
 

JesusLives

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I wish I lived in the days when a man could walk over to the girl he liked, clubbed her over the head and took her to his cave.
Walk softly and carry a Big Stick.
 

jb

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How will you find a wife?
Put an advert in the local press reading something like this:

"Rich attractive 30 year old female required for marriage, blondes also considered!"

There, that should do it! :p
 
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musicguy85

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How will I find a wife? With God's guidance. I don't know the where, when, or how of the matter other than that. That's all I need to know.
 

AsifinPassing

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Find Godly people. Grow closer in your walk, and have some fun being in mission and ministry. See if one stands out to you over time, pray about it, go from there...

As for your thread title, I don't know? I suppose I'll find her (if I do), the same way I found my friends...being in some common place with common interest, deciding to hang around and get to know this one more, share experiences, become friends, go from there...I guess.
 
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Arlene89

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How will you find a wife....?

E-bay.
 
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Arlene89

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Finding a suitable spouse:

It's kind of like Hide and Seek, Tag and Marco Polo, ALL IN ONE!



Personally, I approach it more like a game of Rugby League. I run and tackle.