Discrimination

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Male Discrimination

  • I’m a male and have faced this type of discrimination.

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • I’m a male and have never faced this type of discrimination.

    Votes: 3 23.1%
  • I’m a female and have committed this type of discrimination.

    Votes: 2 15.4%
  • I’m a female and have never committed this type of discrimination.

    Votes: 5 38.5%

  • Total voters
    13
  • Poll closed .
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Charcoal

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#21
I was at the beach getting ready to leave....my youngest daughter was rinsing off in the shower...
a man parked in a spot next to the sidewalk......was doing unthinkable while watching.......
I ran over and kicked his car door and screamed at him......
I was appalled....then called the police....ever since then ......
I look at all men with suspicion.....sad to say.....its probably why im still single.....
I know in my heart that not all men are like that.....but im afraid if I take my eye off one....I might miss
something.....its rough being a single mom with girls.......
I've only one daughter, but I totally get what you're saying... Sad thing is, it's not just our daughters we must guard, but also our sons. And it's not only men that are offenders, it's women, and other children, even.
 
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Charcoal

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#22
prob is, a lot of the 13-17 females will "go after it" as well. but again.. 14 year old boy having fun with 30 year old female everyone says oh lucky kid, or oh the lady made a mistake. however Guy can be 21 and getting it on with a 16 year old and the comments are cut his yaya off, kill him, ect ect.

Sad part is.. I have heard teens girls brag about "having fun" with their much much older guy.. So the comments people make about teen girls are pushed into it.. yeah about as much as a teen guy...
Part of the problem is that the brain development is significantly different in those ages. Consent and informed consent are utterly different things. Children, and yes I include teens in that, are not emotionally or psychologically prepared for this kind of thing. Their noggins aren't there yet, even if their hormones are.
 
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#23
Part of the problem is that the brain development is significantly different in those ages. Consent and informed consent are utterly different things. Children, and yes I include teens in that, are not emotionally or psychologically prepared for this kind of thing. Their noggins aren't there yet, even if their hormones are.
duh, I know that. however it don't change the fact that a 13-17 year old boy or girl can and sometimes will go after someone much much older if given the chance.. what happens when its found out is the key.. if the older one is female then it is as she gets a free pass cause "she just made a mistake" however if the older one is male.. then the knives,swords,noose,ect all come out and people want him dead.
 

Lynx

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#24
It feels like I've already watched this show... Isn't this where we came in?

No wait... that was another thread. Sure feels like it's the same thread though.
 
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jennymae

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#25
By saying this somebody will probably believe that my elevator isn't going all the way up, bless their hearts anyways, but I think society needs to start adressing females behavior as well. Way I see it, too many women are living in a state of irresponsibility, doing whatever they please, and blaming others when their lifestyle is backfiring at them. And, I'm sad to say, we're teaching our daughters that this is ok. We should learn our daughters that they shouldnt mess around with men for fun just because some women liberation gang are telling them "They can!" This kind of irresponsibility is making girls believe they can mess around with any man they see, despite age, they dont even need to cry rape no more, like some actually is doing when the fun part is over, because they know society will do that for them.

I'm sorry I'm ranting but I'm seeing to much of this kinda behavior...
 
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biscuit

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#26
duh, I know that. however it don't change the fact that a 13-17 year old boy or girl can and sometimes will go after someone much much older if given the chance.. what happens when its found out is the key.. if the older one is female then it is as she gets a free pass cause "she just made a mistake" however if the older one is male.. then the knives,swords,noose,ect all come out and people want him dead.
While many of these female adolescents may get a free pass, it will spill out as a failure & haunt in their adult relationship or marriage. It does catches up with them somewhere in life.

If one wants to see why so many relationships & marriages failed, just take a look at the 'rearing practices' of these parents during the developmental stage 10-18 years of age. Many parents aren't involved or just not knowledgeable.
 
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Agricola

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Women paedophiles and kiddy fiddlers do get an extrodinary lighter sentance had it been a male, this is reinforced by comments such as "lucky sod" directed at the young juvenile who had sex with the adult women, but of course girls can not possibly be lucky cane they, even though females develop earlier and also have sexual desires at a young age, how many girls willingly go along with sex beacuse they want to?

Take this recent example, a teacher who should know better having been put in a position of care and duty, tells a 10 year old she loves him and wants to have sex with him, not sure what else went on, but she also tatooed his name and the boy claims she cast spells to make him do what she wanted.

Primary school teacher Diane Brimble avoids jail over sex request to 10-year-old boy - ABC News (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)

Let off without a prison sentnace, if that had been a male with a 10 year old girl I can guarnette the lynch mob would be out and he would get to see the inside of a prison cell.
 
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sassylady

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#28
As a woman, I try to be certain I am seeing something truly off before I would ever say anything.

My ex husband molested our daughters, and as horrible as it was to have this happen, I have seen the results in his life because of what he did and have tried my utmost to be sure that I or my daughters never put a man in a position where we or anybody could say something that is not true, and as I stated, not to jump to conclusions about any actions we see.

I don't think a man can be too careful anymore because there is always somebody who will see something and make a mountain out of a molehill. Unfortunately the bad ones make it hard for everybody else.
 
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I avoid situations where I might be alone with anyone who isn't an adult male. I followed this rule even in regard to troubled teenage girl (not at all attractive) who desperately needed a friend. She committed suicide. Maybe I couldn't have made a difference, but for my own protection, I didn't try.