Shad, I do thank you for your post, and for your diligence in searching for scriptures to post, however I really don't have it in me to debate the issue. When I read your post, my temptation was to search for more scriptures in the hope of expounding further to prove a point, but I am reminded of what HappynGod initiated, the realization that we sometimes mishandle the word of God, and belittle our brothers and sisters. I am convinced that, if not through my posts, then perhaps through the posts of others in this thread, the points have been clearly made and are understood by most.
When I first came to this website only months ago, my zeal tempted me to do the very thing I am now trying to avoid, debating. To explore a topic until I have exhausted my memory and my mental tolerance for a subject, is quickly losing its value for me. I am trying to transition by focusing, rather, on ways that I can use the word and my experiences, to heal, to help and to advise.
I gladly leave the biblical discussions and debates to individuals like yourself, but I would be remiss not to take this opoportunity to thank HappynGod again, for recognizing the need to post what the Holy Spirit laid on her heart, and for accurately representing the character of God.
I appreciate you all , and its an honor to know each one of you. As for me, I will make a conscious effort to conduct my conversations in a manner which reflects the love God has shown toward me, and that He is continually cultivating in my heart.
Matthew 10:16
...be as wise as serpents, and as harmless as doves..
Ephesians 4:29
Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace to the hearers.