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Their reactions.... Then frustration
What kind of reactions do you guys get when you are open about being a virgin. I am a very open person about it. But in all honesty I'm almost sick of being open about it. Because of the way people react. Sometimes people just laugh and say Yeah right haha your 24 I don't believe you one bit. Then their are others who are just so dumbfounded and shocked. And then there are the ones who say I am do proud of you that is such an amazing thing, I could never have waited that long but good for you.. Like they say it in a way that they petty me or something..... And of course the guys reaction. The one who you are talking to getting to know and starting to like but no he isn't a virgin.... His reaction!! Extremely shocked... Sometimes I feel like some of them accept it and say that they think that is wonderful and still keep talking to me like it is all okay. Only because they didn't want to be a complete ass hole because they see the goodness in me and so instead of probably doing what they are really thinking which is that's great your a virgin but you should just leave now cause there is no way I could not have sex, it was nice meeting you though ... But no instead they wait it out for a little bit I'm assuming because they might think that they can change my mind and then they will get to have mind blowing sex with a virgin. Idk.. But in the end while waiting it out for a short while.. It always comes back to the same exact thing. I'm so into you and your personality and your such a great person, but it's frustrating not being able to have sex with you...
It always comes down to almost the same exact phrase after a while it's 'I'm sexual frustrated ". I'm sorry but when I first herd this phrase from a guy I'm like your joking right? You realize I'm a virgin and I'm breathing and walking I'm alive!!! It's not like your going to die without it... It's like they are so self centered that they don't even realize it is accttually possible and that there are a lot of people who don't have sex or who are virgins
It frustrates me when I hear the phrase this is sexually frustrating. Like they don't even realize also how that phrase makes me feel..
Which is to be honest a bit depressed like always that I'm stillllll a virgin at 24 with like absolutely no one around me who is also. And it makes me feel like I'm not good enough.. And kind of guilty in a small way. Like I really like this guy' but I'm jot making him happy. Again great. Or that I'm never going to be good enough for anyone. Cause they are always going to get "frustrated".... It's an awful never ending cycle.
But most of all I just can't stand people's reactions anymore towards it because of my age. Oh an also when like your with" friends " who all know about it and then are talking about sex stuff or whatever they talk to you like a child like you have no idea about anything they are talking about and say it's okay hunny and give you a pat on the back... Or something ridiculous like that...
Moral to the story I am so sick of people's reactions.
What kind of reactions do you guys get when you are open about being a virgin. I am a very open person about it. But in all honesty I'm almost sick of being open about it. Because of the way people react. Sometimes people just laugh and say Yeah right haha your 24 I don't believe you one bit. Then their are others who are just so dumbfounded and shocked. And then there are the ones who say I am do proud of you that is such an amazing thing, I could never have waited that long but good for you.. Like they say it in a way that they petty me or something..... And of course the guys reaction. The one who you are talking to getting to know and starting to like but no he isn't a virgin.... His reaction!! Extremely shocked... Sometimes I feel like some of them accept it and say that they think that is wonderful and still keep talking to me like it is all okay. Only because they didn't want to be a complete ass hole because they see the goodness in me and so instead of probably doing what they are really thinking which is that's great your a virgin but you should just leave now cause there is no way I could not have sex, it was nice meeting you though ... But no instead they wait it out for a little bit I'm assuming because they might think that they can change my mind and then they will get to have mind blowing sex with a virgin. Idk.. But in the end while waiting it out for a short while.. It always comes back to the same exact thing. I'm so into you and your personality and your such a great person, but it's frustrating not being able to have sex with you...
It always comes down to almost the same exact phrase after a while it's 'I'm sexual frustrated ". I'm sorry but when I first herd this phrase from a guy I'm like your joking right? You realize I'm a virgin and I'm breathing and walking I'm alive!!! It's not like your going to die without it... It's like they are so self centered that they don't even realize it is accttually possible and that there are a lot of people who don't have sex or who are virgins
It frustrates me when I hear the phrase this is sexually frustrating. Like they don't even realize also how that phrase makes me feel..
Which is to be honest a bit depressed like always that I'm stillllll a virgin at 24 with like absolutely no one around me who is also. And it makes me feel like I'm not good enough.. And kind of guilty in a small way. Like I really like this guy' but I'm jot making him happy. Again great. Or that I'm never going to be good enough for anyone. Cause they are always going to get "frustrated".... It's an awful never ending cycle.
But most of all I just can't stand people's reactions anymore towards it because of my age. Oh an also when like your with" friends " who all know about it and then are talking about sex stuff or whatever they talk to you like a child like you have no idea about anything they are talking about and say it's okay hunny and give you a pat on the back... Or something ridiculous like that...
Moral to the story I am so sick of people's reactions.