No offence Sirk brother. I don't need to know what rubs you the wrong way and who is in your ignore list or how people you see. The fact it you should speak to them in person, and share your thoughts, and how you feel about them, and what they say: as you put it rubs you the wrong way. and discuss the matter with them not in the open.
But a question for you Sirk? what if, the very person you are ignoring, is right? forget about everything else for a moment, just think about it, what if that person is genuinely right? we are all at different levels in our journey to God. and thats the problem, because you could be at a point in time, you actually fully understand something, and the person you talking to is not even close as of yet, so they will find things hard to accept, or agree or beleif in, because they have not yet come to that same point as you, so there will be conflictions, and disagreements, and fight and arguments. and ignore list.