You do realize that a lot of women say that crap at that age right? Most of them grow up at some point or another in their early to mid 20's. Just ignore the ones who don't.
Definitely ignore the ones who don't though - they meet a man who is moderately financially successful and then castrate him throughout a long and grueling marriage which defines the rest of his pathetic existence. Sometimes they decide he's no fun any more (after they've castrated him) and file for divorce.
The rest of the women out there though, most of them are tolerable, some are even exceptional (though they are rare or I wouldn't be single). Not trying only guarantees a negative outcome.
But seriously I heard those same comments as a teenager, and did manage to get a few dates. That wasn't what stopped me from dating at all, but more the fact that I was in fact, someone who could never provide for a woman in any real capacity until quite recently. Women do seem to want that, whether they say so or not, plus if I couldn't offer it, I couldn't really offer anything of value any ways.
Now, I'm not sure what's holding me back.