Hi, longtrekker.
I'm assuming that you've read my previous posts on this thread, so I'm just going to allude to certain things which I've already documented and not bother citing the actual verses again.
What do we know of a certaintly from the book of Job?
Well, we know at least the following:
1. Job, in the midst of his ordeal, lamented that there was no "daysman" or "umpire" or "mediator" between him and God who could lay his hand upon both of them and mediate between the same.
2. After both Job and his three friends had finished speaking, Elihu spoke up and told Job that he was there according to his wish in God's stead. IOW, Elihu told Job that he was his requested mediator between God and man.
3. Elihu then proceeded to rebuke Job's three friends and Job.
4. Immediately after Elihu finished speaking, the LORD Himself spoke and He rebuked Job and his three friends, BUT HE NEVER REBUKED ELIHU.
This is all fact and not conjecture or theory.
With such being the case, I wholeheartedly suggest to you that the key to understanding the book of Job is found BOTH in what Elihu stated AND in the LORD's confirmation of the same when He began to speak. What, then, did both Elihu and the LORD address with Job? Well, they both addressed PRIDE and Job ultimately said that he was "vile", he "put his hand over his mouth" after realizing what a fool he had been and he "abhorred himself and repented in dust and ashes". I mean, what non-sinner does the same? It's absolutely LUDICROUS for anybody to even suggest that Job was innocent in this ordeal. Granted, INITIALLY Job didn't sin with his lips in that he rightly noted that the LORD gives and the LORD takes away and in that he rightly noted that he entered this world naked and that he wasn't taking anything out of this world either. AFTER THAT, HOWEVER, JOB WENT ON A SELF-RIGHTEOUS RANT/RAMPAGE WHERE HE REPEATEDLY JUSTIFIED HIMSELF WHILE REPEATEDLY CONDEMNING GOD. THIS is what he "ADDED UNTO his sin" and is NOT just his only "sin" itself. Again, what was his sin? Here's Elihu's introductory comments and his latter comments agree with the same as do the comments of the LORD Himself:
Job chapter 33
[1] Wherefore, Job, I pray thee, hear my speeches, and hearken to all my words.
[2] Behold, now I have opened my mouth, my tongue hath spoken in my mouth.
[3] My words shall be of the uprightness of my heart: and my lips shall utter knowledge clearly.
[4] The Spirit of God hath made me, and the breath of the Almighty hath given me life.
[5] If thou canst answer me, set thy words in order before me, stand up.
[6] Behold, I am according to thy wish in God's stead: I also am formed out of the clay.
[7] Behold, my terror shall not make thee afraid, neither shall my hand be heavy upon thee.
[8] Surely thou hast spoken in mine hearing, and I have heard the voice of thy words, saying,
[9] I am clean without transgression, I am innocent; neither is there iniquity in me.
[10] Behold, he findeth occasions against me, he counteth me for his enemy,
[11] He putteth my feet in the stocks, he marketh all my paths.
[12] Behold, in this thou art not just: I will answer thee, that God is greater than man.
[13] Why dost thou strive against him? for he giveth not account of any of his matters.
[14] For God speaketh once, yea twice, yet man perceiveth it not.
[15] In a dream, in a vision of the night, when deep sleep falleth upon men, in slumberings upon the bed;
[16] Then he openeth the ears of men, and sealeth their instruction,
[17] That he may withdraw man from his purpose, and hide pride from man.
[18] He keepeth back his soul from the pit, and his life from perishing by the sword.
[19] He is chastened also with pain upon his bed, and the multitude of his bones with strong pain:
[20] So that his life abhorreth bread, and his soul dainty meat.
[21] His flesh is consumed away, that it cannot be seen; and his bones that were not seen stick out.
[22] Yea, his soul draweth near unto the grave, and his life to the destroyers.
[23] If there be a messenger with him, an interpreter, one among a thousand, to shew unto man his uprightness:
[24] Then he is gracious unto him, and saith, Deliver him from going down to the pit: I have found a ransom.
[25] His flesh shall be fresher than a child's: he shall return to the days of his youth:
[26] He shall pray unto God, and he will be favourable unto him: and he shall see his face with joy: for he will render unto man his righteousness.
[27] He looketh upon men, and if any say, I have sinned, and perverted that which was right, and it profited me not;
[28] He will deliver his soul from going into the pit, and his life shall see the light.
[29] Lo, all these things worketh God oftentimes with man,
[30] To bring back his soul from the pit, to be enlightened with the light of the living.
The implication here is that God had been striving with Job repeatedly via dreams and/or visions of the night in an attempt to WITHOLD JOB FROM HIS PURPOSE AND HIDE PRIDE FROM HIM...but apparently Job wasn't getting the message.
Look, I've been a God-fearing Christian myself for 26+ years now and I ALWAYS pray for God to speak to me even in my dreams at night...AND HE DOES! There have been countless times when God has done with ME exactly what Elihu stated to Job that "God oftentimes works with man". IOW, God has repeatedly spoken unto me in dreams to WITHOLD ME FROM PURPOSES WHICH WEREN'T RIGHT (even as he did with the king Abimelech who took Abraham's wife - Genesis chapter 20) and to HIDE PRIDE FROM ME...and I thank God that He's done just that.
Anyhow, I'd literally be happy to go through each and every verse of each and every chapter of the book of Job with you if it would help.