That is a very optimistic view.
However... if you have very different views on how to spend or save money, on how to raise children, on spiritual matters, on ways of communicating, or on ways of showing and receiving love... these are not minor details. These are things that can and often do tear marriages apart, even Christian marriages between partners who love one another. Otherwise the Christian divorce rate would not be so woefully high.
Let's say for example that you love her, and she loves you, but the way you communicate is different. She may not be able to adapt to your way of communication due to how she was raised or her general personality. (She is naturally private and quiet.) You may not be able to adapt to her way of communication because of how you were raised, or your personality. (You are naturally expressive and curious.) Her quiet avoidance of intimate conversation frustrates you and leaves you feeling locked out emotionally. Your inquisitive nature in wanting to talk about everything leaves her feeling threatened and harassed.
You can see where this could be a major issue in a marriage. Is it the instant death of a marriage? Of course not... with counseling and open minds and the ability to pinpoint the problem and desire to work on the issue, it can be overcome.
But I don't know that it's wise to overlook something like this when forming an attachment to someone. Choose someone that you are compatible with, whose personality compliments yours. You'll save yourself and your wife a lot of grief in the many years to come.