Never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever blame a victim for being harassed. Blaming the victim is abuse.
Verbal abuse includes bullying, defaming, defining, trivializing, harassing, diverting, interrogating, accusing, blaming, lying, berating, taunting, condemning, put downs, abuse disguised as a joke, discounting, threatening, name-calling, cursing, yelling and raging, to name a few off the top of my head.
We are all responsible for how we treat others no matter what clothing they are wearing. It is against the law to harass.