Dating a person blindfolded who youve never met before what would you say

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didymos

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So you are on your first date with this person youve never seen their face before you turn up to your first date but youre blindfolded and this is fictional/ a game the person is ok with you being blindfolded...
that would be my second date :rolleyes:
 
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greg789

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#22
I'm blinded by sin, maybe the double blind will make a positive.......
 
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musicguy85

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I would say "Wow, you have beautiful eyes!" . Probably followed by awkward small talk.
 

melita916

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Are you melita? Because I feel really awkward right now...
am i awkward? in person, yes. in writing, no. lol

why do you feel really awkward right now? or should i say when you posted? lol
 

JesusLives

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As a married person I'd have to say no....But what an interesting way to really get to know someone's personality before you see them....It would be a nice way to get to know what is on the inside before passing any judgments on what the outside looks like. Not a totally bad idea really.... but not for me as kind of got to know tourist before I saw any picture of him online with all the writing back and forth....So I do like the idea of getting to know the person from the inside out.....
 

rachelsedge

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This actually sounds really fun! You'd each have to have a friend walk you to the table, so you'd have to have a few more people involved, but it sounds like a fun experiment.

I'm sure the waitresses and waiters would be amused as well.

You'd also have to make sure you ate finger foods, because being blind folded and eating spaghetti...
 
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skylove7

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Honestly....I love people for the good in their heart,....it's not about looks with me! But never blind folded for the reason you could have the most amazing date ever! Then take off your blindfold....and the guy may look just like your brother. Then you would be horribly disgusted... And heart broken wanting to run screaming through the resteraunt! Also...good luck to me if I ever found a man that would be willing to take me out without seeing me first! They all had to see me first! And sad to say....people can put so much of their energy, into you being what 'they' want....not caring that you have a lovely heart....many people I'm this world don't care at all! I don't cry so much about it anymore, as I used too. I just live for the Father, and if true love is meant...by Gods love and grace...it will happen with patience. God Bless You all,
 
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MollyConnor

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I would just talk to them :)
 
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missy2014

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Honestly....I love people for the good in their heart,....it's not about looks with me! But never blind folded for the reason you could have the most amazing date ever! Then take off your blindfold....and the guy may look just like your brother. Then you would be horribly disgusted... And heart broken wanting to run screaming through the resteraunt! Also...good luck to me if I ever found a man that would be willing to take me out without seeing me first! They all had to see me first! And sad to say....people can put so much of their energy, into you being what 'they' want....not caring that you have a lovely heart....many people I'm this world don't care at all! I don't cry so much about it anymore, as I used too. I just live for the Father, and if true love is meant...by Gods love and grace...it will happen with patience. God Bless You all,
That was encouraging ty for posting
 
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missy2014

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As a married person I'd have to say no....But what an interesting way to really get to know someone's personality before you see them....It would be a nice way to get to know what is on the inside before passing any judgments on what the outside looks like. Not a totally bad idea really.... but not for me as kind of got to know tourist before I saw any picture of him online with all the writing back and forth....So I do like the idea of getting to know the person from the inside out.....
This is as mentioned just a fictional game I totally wouldnt do this with my future husband. Marriage is a very important decision in our lives.
 

p_rehbein

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(man, I hope no one has said this yet..............)

uh, if you DO date someone "blindfolded," make sure they are driving.
 
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cmarieh

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(man, I hope no one has said this yet..............)

uh, if you DO date someone "blindfolded," make sure they are driving.
So kind of like the movie "License to Wed". Good one:) LOL
 
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Breeze7

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I would do the blind fold thing but still once the blind fold came off after that first date I would totally evaluate. I'm saying, down for the blind fold but after its off were both still who we are as far as tastes and judging. Character is important but so is feelings with the looks and all.
 
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ServantStrike

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This sounds kind of like kidnapping.


Where's Seolsearch when you need her. She's about to come in here and ask us if this rag smells like chloroform.




It does sound like a fun idea all joking aside. I'd be game for it.
 

seoulsearch

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This sounds kind of like kidnapping.


Where's Seolsearch when you need her. She's about to come in here and ask us if this rag smells like chloroform.
Wait a minute!!! I turn my back for a couple of hours... and Servant Strike is revealing the fact that I am, er... I mean, he's TOTALLY MAKING UP stories that make me sound like a deranged psychopath???!!! (NO connection AT ALL with reality here.) *stomps foot*

(But wait... Why am I laughing so hard... Kind of like the Joker?)

And where in the hee haw did I put all my doggone handkerchiefs???!!!

For some reason, I'm always losing those things... But only because I'm so busy offering them to other people.

By the way, that scent I'm wearing? I think it's called "Eau De Knockout"... Come a little closer and see if you can tell. Especially YOU, Servant!
 
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ServantStrike

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Wait a minute!!! I turn my back for a couple of hours... and Servant Strike is revealing the fact that I am, er... I mean, he's TOTALLY MAKING UP stories that make me sound like a deranged psychopath???!!! (NO connection AT ALL with reality here.) *stomps foot*

(But wait... Why am I laughing so hard... Kind of like the Joker?)

And where in the hee haw did I put all my doggone handkerchiefs???!!!

For some reason, I'm always losing those things... But only because I'm so busy offering them to other people.

By the way, that scent I'm wearing? I think it's called "Eau De Knockout"... Come a little closer and see if you can tell. Especially YOU, Servant!
Hey now, you and I both know we exchanged err... recipies, on how to bake uhh.... cakes to sell out of the back of vans, on multiple occasions.

Remember when KenThomas fell for Eau De Knockout?





Poor guy was shell shocked for weeks. He even looked like that, so undignified for a duck!
 

seoulsearch

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Hey now, you and I both know we exchanged err... recipies, on how to bake uhh.... cakes to sell out of the back of vans, on multiple occasions.

Remember when KenThomas fell for Eau De Knockout?!
You've just given me a brilliant idea, Servant.

I think all I need to do is to change my marketing strategy ever so slightly.

"Do You Have Problems Getting a Restful Night's Sleep?"

Breathe deeply. That's it... In, out, in, out.

Oh, and cover your face with this hanky. (SOLELY for relaxational purposes, of course!!!) What? WHAT??? It'll help out block out some of the light and further enhance the relaxing experience. I'm thinking ONLY of the person's best interest. That, and whether he's busy Saturday afternoon and can attend a friend's wedding with me. But he'd get to eat cake!! Obviously, I'm thinking of others before myself. (I would even stand in line BEHIND him for the cake.)

Plus, as an added BONUS ROUND, I don't think I can be held legally responsible if my victims, er, fortunate subjects of my impressive generosity, actually KNOCK THEMSELVES OUT. After all, they were the ones who: 1. accepted the most generously-offered hanky; 2. covered their own faces with it (no force or coercion involved!); and 3. breathed deeply into said hanky and keeled over.

I simply cannot be held responsible, seeing as the entire sequence was a series of actions done by their own choice.

Nothing like covering all the legal bases.

I think this deserves an extra helping of cake.
 

JGuy

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So you are on your first date with this person youve never seen their face before you turn up to your first date but youre blindfolded and this is fictional/ a game the person is ok with you being blindfolded what would you say...

"Can I take the blindfold off? Because I don't know why or even how I agreed to this. I mean, I was sunbathing on a beach in the Bahamas before I was suddenly teleported into this, this, this fictional matrix scenario! So, I need to take off this blindfold or find one of those red pills! I'm about to have a freaking anxiety attack! Seriously! And why am I wearing loafers now? I had my fav beach sandals on!! I loved those sandals!!"
 
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Fenner

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I'd ask, how did I get here, I'm blindfolded?
 

melita916

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"wait... is this a date? or is it really a febreeze commercial?" :confused:

lol