Eze 33:11 "Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?"
It's not God's nature to force men to be lost, but God desires the wicked to be saved.
Rom 9:22 "What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction:"
2 Pet 3:9 "The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but islongsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance."
The purpose of God's longsuffering is so that all men should come to repentance.
2 Pet 3:15 "And account that the longsuffering of our Lord is salvation; even as our beloved brother Paul also according to the wisdom given unto him hath written unto you;"
The purpose of god's longsuffering is salvation.
If Rom 9:22 means before the world began God has already predetermined those Jews to be lost/vessels of wrath, then why would God be longsuffering with those vessels of wrath that they should come to repentance, be saved when God has already predetermined they be lost?