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Much have been said in this forum and all are amazing. For years I had no idea that women use the names of their husbands' clan and it does not mean so much to me.(YIKES)
Why I feel so? it is because I am married to you(my husband) not to your all clan. For instance your husband's name is James Pitt and your name is Alice farewell, so your new name after marriage is either Alice farewell Pitt or Alice Pitt, I hate this Why can't I use Alice James? and there are some cultures that are terrible, if your husband dies you will be married to his brother, hope I am not shocking you with this.
Hey members how do you feel about using clan names? Do you men like the idea that your wife should use your clans' names.
I am totally not into it, I would be happy and proud to use the name of my husband not his clan name, after all we are going to start our own family, why bother with clans' name?
Why I feel so? it is because I am married to you(my husband) not to your all clan. For instance your husband's name is James Pitt and your name is Alice farewell, so your new name after marriage is either Alice farewell Pitt or Alice Pitt, I hate this Why can't I use Alice James? and there are some cultures that are terrible, if your husband dies you will be married to his brother, hope I am not shocking you with this.
Hey members how do you feel about using clan names? Do you men like the idea that your wife should use your clans' names.
I am totally not into it, I would be happy and proud to use the name of my husband not his clan name, after all we are going to start our own family, why bother with clans' name?