Recreating porn is wrong!

[Rudimental]

Obviously I struck a nerve with someone.

 

[GaryA]

since it's "completely contrary to the kind of relationship God intends" for a married couple, i would expect that you can share some scripture in support of your definitive response.

i would really appreciate learning how you came to that conclusion.

Are you saying that you believe that a husband should have to "work for" the "privilege" to [ simply ] see his wife naked? ( to simply "look upon" his wife's naked body )

 

[GaryA]

Obviously I struck a nerve with someone.

"Not so much as you might think..."

I know you were only trying to be funny - making reference to a "modern-day 'anecdotal' commonality" in society. Except for the fact that I believe that some of these things are wrong, I would "laugh right along with the rest"...

My post was intended to be an admonishment against this type of thinking -- the part of it that "accepts it as normal" and "does not think there is anything wrong with it"...

i.e. - the post was not an "angry" post ( or anything like that ); rather, it was simply intended to "make a point"...

Yes - you "struck a nerve" - only - one of 'concern', not of 'anger'.

 

[Rudimental]

No, I wasn't trying to be funny. I was being deadly serious.

 

[GaryA]

since it's "completely contrary to the kind of relationship God intends" for a married couple, i would expect that you can share some scripture in support of your definitive response.

i would really appreciate learning how you came to that conclusion.

Are you saying that you believe that the physical / affectionate / sexual part of a marriage relationship should not be "given freely, with love" ( both directions ) as God intends? That it should be "held in ransom" for the sake of selfish motives?

 

[GaryA]

No, I wasn't trying to be funny. I was being deadly serious.

Okay.

Do you believe that a wife has the 'right' ( in God's eyes ) to "make" her husband "earn" the "privilege" to "partake" of her body ( on an instance-by-instance basis )?

 

[GaryA]

Okay.

Do you believe that a wife has the 'right' ( in God's eyes ) to "make" her husband "earn" the "privilege" to "partake" of her body ( on an instance-by-instance basis )?

In a valid healthy-marital-relationship way, of course. I am not talking about abuse, etc. in this context.

ALL: By the way -- in the previous post - my use of the word 'partake' includes even simple things like that which is discussed in post #22.

 

[Rudimental]

Are you saying that you believe that the physical / affectionate / sexual part of a marriage relationship should not be "given freely, with love" ( both directions ) as God intends? That it should be "held in ransom" for the sake of selfish motives?

Okay.
Do you believe that a wife has the 'right' ( in God's eyes ) to "make" her husband "earn" the "privilege" to "partake" of her body ( on an instance-by-instance basis )?

In a valid healthy-marital-relationship way, of course. I am not talking about abuse, etc. in this context.
ALL: By the way -- in the previous post - my use of the word 'partake' includes even simple things like that which is discussed in post #22.

I already made myself pretty clear.

 

[GaryA]

As far as nude pictures being on their cellphones, yes I feel it's inappropriate. What if one of their nude pics is being used as a screen saver on the phone? And they lend the phone to someone, forgetting that there's a nude pic on there. I don't know about you, gypsy, but I would be mortified if anyone saw nude pics of me on someone's phone. or computer, whatever. Then again, I have better sense than to put nude pictures where ANYONE can see them.

I agree. What does it say about us as people, and as a society - where privacy is concerned - if we do not hold such things "in high regard"...???

Can you see how [ just the fact that this is even a question ] illustrates the degradation of society [ already ]?

Aside from all of the 'moral' implications -- this is just simply good common sense acting against unnecessary risk of 'exposure'.

If the OP and her partner wanna get freaky in their house, that's their business. But as far as putting porn on devices like phones and computers, where anyone could see it, is wrong and it's tacky and distasteful. I don't know about anyone else but I sure wouldn't want to stupidly run the risk of someone else seeing nude photos of myself.

I agree. Turning our private lives "loose" into society for the sake of 'entertainment' is not a good idea...

Besides, how does she know he ISN'T showing those pics to his friends and boasting about it? Just tasteless, IMO.

If he does this -- he loves himself more than he loves his wife ( IMO ) - nor is he trustworthy in maintaining the privacy of his marriage ( those things that should remain private between he and his wife ).