Conservative Christian girls are letting conservative Christian men down

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seoulsearch

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this is where i'm confused. i figured a christian conservative man wouldn't want to be unequally yoked. i figured he wouldn't compromise. if a pagan woman can convince a man with high christian morals and values that marrying her is no biggie, then it is not the conservative christian woman's fault. he compromised.

but of course, that's just my opinion.

*goes back into hiding*

:cool:

p.s. i'm not confused at all lol
20 stars for this, Melita.

How can a man claim to be a highly conservative Christian if he's falling prey to marrying a pagan woman just because someone "Christian enough" hasn't come along as fast as he thinks it should happen?

Abraham tried it when he thought God should hurry up or had forgotten about him.

And we all know how well that worked out.

Now of course, we can all be tempted to compromise our faith. But how can a "conservative Christian man" attract a "conservative Christian woman" anyway if he's being seduced by and catering to pagan women?

I'm betting that NO Christian woman (or man, if the situation of the genders was reversed) would want to be with someone like that.
 

Nautilus

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I just loved his definition of conservative christian woman. If thats what you are looking for you're best bet is going to be the super small charismatic churches that are normally full of heresies but at least have very plain women for you.
 

melita916

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Now who is going to lose if pagans who pretend to be Christians keep marrying conservative Christians? it is not the conservative christian men that will lose. It is the conservative christian girls that will lose. For example i am a conservative christian man and even if i end up marrying one of those pagan women who pretends to be a christian i will not be shaken by her. She will not be able to bully, mislead or trick me into leaving Christianity. Because i am a strong christian and because i have the physical strength of a man. But God help you if you are a conservative christian girl that marries a pagan man who pretends to be a christian. He will use his masculine strength to bully you, mislead you and trick you into leaving Christianity. As a conservative christian girl that sleeps on the same bed as a pagan man who pretends to be a christian you are like a sheep that sleeps on the same bed as a lion. so it is the conservative girls that will lose if they don't come out to be seen.
and this part. wat? if the pagan woman can convince the christian conservative man to marry her, she can convince him to do anything. this can happen in either gender.

kim, thanks for the rep points :)
 

seoulsearch

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I just loved his definition of conservative christian woman. If thats what you are looking for you're best bet is going to be the super small charismatic churches that are normally full of heresies but at least have very plain women for you.
The original poster might consider this video helpful. Beware though, it might be considered a bit too racy when the teenage boys are looking at women's ankles.


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In my tender, godless and randy youth, I always found Christian girls fantastic.
So warm and friendly and sweet and cuddly and .....gullible. :mad:
 
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Rosesrock

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My post may be removed from this thread because I'm neither single nor looking. I just wanted to thriw jn an encouraging word to those christian singles out there guys and girls. Im raising one son 23, and three daughters 22, 18, 14
And none are hiding. They are all praying, a couple dating, and actually trying to find that one worthy of his or her time.
Scripture clearly tells each gender to seek christ. I'm to teach my son to fear God and pray for a virtuous woman who will love her home, her God, her husband, and her children.I'm to teach my daughters to be God honoring and virtuous.
Now, my daughter's are not hiding orbeing hidden, but you better believe they are prayerful about where they go or who they hang out with.
Christian girl you are special. Be proud of who God has called you to be.
Christian man, you are also special. Seek God's wisdom in who he wants for you in a wife and don't judge others in their walk with the Lord, for that my friend is different for all.
 

DuchessAimee

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Gifs Which Apply to This Thread: An Art Show - Sarcasm Displayed

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Shouryu

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Aimee is an instant winner just for starting her gif parade with a gif from Jem and the Holograms.

My instantly recognizing that might mean that I am the opposite of an instant winner. Oh well.
 

DuchessAimee

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Aimee is an instant winner just for starting her gif parade with a gif from Jem and the Holograms.

My instantly recognizing that might mean that I am the opposite of an instant winner. Oh well.


No, no. Just you recognizing that from a girl swimming from a shark is impressive!


 

Lynx

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No, it's just another man who places all the blame on women, and is here to teach you all why you are wrong, because that's his place, and that's your place.
I thought that job was already taken by... a certain other forum member. We're going to have to get the Union to settle this one.
 
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Aimee is an instant winner just for starting her gif parade with a gif from Jem and the Holograms.

My instantly recognizing that might mean that I am the opposite of an instant winner. Oh well.
No, it's cool to be into Jem. She was outrageous. Truly, truly, truly outrageous.
 

Shannon50

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Glad I don't have a pic of myself on my avatar-- I would be too tempting for this original poster, and keep him from his original goal :D But I do have to give it to him, this thread was a blast!!!
 

seoulsearch

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Glad I don't have a pic of myself on my avatar-- I would be too tempting for this original poster, and keep him from his original goal :D But I do have to give it to him, this thread was a blast!!!
I totally hear what you're saying.

I've been wanting to post a picture of myself in my nun's habit, knee socks, and turtleneck (yes, all at once), but I'm pretty sure what would start a flash mob.

And I wouldn't want to get any reprimands for disturbing the peace.
 

melita916

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I totally hear what you're saying.

I've been wanting to post a picture of myself in my nun's habit, knee socks, and turtleneck (yes, all at once), but I'm pretty sure what would start a flash mob.

And I wouldn't want to get any reprimands for disturbing the peace.
disturbing the peace? you? neverrrr lol just kidding. you're awesome :)

i wonder if the dude has read through our replies. he hasn't posted in here since the OP. hmm....
 
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Miri

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As a conservative christian man, I always knew that when the time comes for me to get a wife i will marry one of those conservative christian women. There are Christians i call social Christians and there are some other Christians i call conservative Christians. Social Christian girls are those ones you see in the church with immodest dressing, lipsticks, make up, jewellery and earrings. Conservative christian girls are those christian girls that take their faith seriously and they don't dress immodestly, wear lipsticks, make up, jewelry and earrings because they know it is wrong to do so. Now the time has come for me to get a wife and i look around searching for these conservative christian girls but i couldn't find one. So the question here is where are they? Where are those conservative christian girls? There are conservative christian girls but they just don't come out to be seen. On the other hand conservative christian men with high christian and moral values come out in search of conservative Christian women but they just don't find them. Now who is responsible for this? It is the conservative christian women that are letting conservative christian men down because it is them that are not coming out to be seen. This is my message to you conservative christian girls: pagan women are marrying men that are meant for you. Conservative christian men with high christian and moral values are meant for you, but you allow pagan women to marry the men that are meant for you by not coming out to be seen. Here is what is going on in the society today: conservative girls are not coming out to be seen instead they believe that the man is supposed to seek them in their mainly small denominational church and pagan men take advantage of this by going to meet conservative christian girls in their church whilst pretending to be Christians. On the other hand, conservative men come out and search for conservative girls but they don't find them and pagan women take advantage of this by trying to convince conservative men that marrying a pagan woman is no big deal. Now who is going to lose if pagans who pretend to be Christians keep marrying conservative Christians? it is not the conservative christian men that will lose. It is the conservative christian girls that will lose. For example i am a conservative christian man and even if i end up marrying one of those pagan women who pretends to be a christian i will not be shaken by her. She will not be able to bully, mislead or trick me into leaving Christianity. Because i am a strong christian and because i have the physical strength of a man. But God help you if you are a conservative christian girl that marries a pagan man who pretends to be a christian. He will use his masculine strength to bully you, mislead you and trick you into leaving Christianity. As a conservative christian girl that sleeps on the same bed as a pagan man who pretends to be a christian you are like a sheep that sleeps on the same bed as a lion. so it is the conservative girls that will lose if they don't come out to be seen.
so why are the conservative christian girls not coming out? Firstly i believe it is because of pride, they believe they are too special to come out and seek men, they wrongly believe it is the man that is supposed to seek the woman. conservative girls should know that the bible says that a man and woman should come together and marry but the bible did not say that it is the man that is supposed to seek the woman. So drop your pride and come out to be seen. another reason i believe conservative girls don't come out is because of intimidation. They turn on their TV sets and they see men portrayed sex craving perverts in immoral hip hop music videos or TV adverts and they wrongly believe that all men are perverts. they believe that all men are sex craving perverts so they run for cover and hide themselves in doors. The corrupt media of today has deceived conservative christian women into believing that they are not wanted by christian men, the media has deceived conservative christian girls into believing that christian men prefer to date social, bubbly and outgoing christian women with immodest dressings, earrings ,make up and lipsticks. But this is a lie, the truth is that christian men want those gentle, quiet, humble, conservative 'no make up" christian girls. if you are one of those conservative christian girls then know that you are a scarce commodity in the christian dating market and your value is very high as christian men are searching for you and you need to come out to be seen. Conservative girls should know that not all men are perverts and neither should they be intimidated, no one is going to rape you if you come out to be seen. there are some good, conservative christian men out there that are meant for you but you need to come out to be seen.
When i say come out i mean use any possible means to find that conservative christian man. For example, online Christian dating. I once searched through 1000 profiles of women on a Christian dating site and i dd not find one conservative christian girl in a thousand. Not even one. On the other hand i searched through male profiles and i saw hundreds of conservative men searching in vain for that conservative christian girl. Another way of coming out is to drop your pride and personally seek the conservative christian men yourself. By not coming out you are letting no one down but yourself. So please come out to be seen. conservative christian men are searching for you.

Having said that can anyone on this forum recommend any Christian denomination or church where conservative Christian women can be found. I have learnt of the apostolic Pentecostals but the issue is that i disagree with some beliefs of the apostolic Pentecostals, but that does not mean that the people who attend apostolic pentecostal churches are false, some may be true conservative Christians. So can anyone recommend any Christian denomination or church other than the apostolic Pentecostals where conservative Christians can be found?

Might want to try the Amish, they don't have phones, dentists or cars either.
 
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I know, lol. But then I wonder is it not an issue with English not being a first language perhaps?
As an English teacher, let me assure you that paragraphing has NOTHING to do with knowing or not knowing English. Paragraphing is a common grammatical construct in all Western European countries. While there may be particulars that vary (i.e. in English we paragraph for each speaker in dialogue), it is common practice.

Lack of paragraphing pretty much indicates a person who 1) lacks experience with online message boards and/or 2) Is probably not much of a reader (hobby-wise).
 

Shannon50

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As an English teacher, let me assure you that paragraphing has NOTHING to do with knowing or not knowing English. Paragraphing is a common grammatical construct in all Western European countries. While there may be particulars that vary (i.e. in English we paragraph for each speaker in dialogue), it is common practice.

Lack of paragraphing pretty much indicates a person who 1) lacks experience with online message boards and/or 2) Is probably not much of a reader (hobby-wise).
-- Well, one thing's for sure, he's probably not reading any books written by Christian Conservative Women, anyway.