Heh heh.
I apologize to those of you who have heard me whine and cry about this before, but let me tell you about being dumped. Being dumped is when you're married... and every time you try to talk about something important, your husband leaves to go to his friend's house... and when he finally gets really tired of it all, he moves into the guest room of the house you share with him and lives there for the duration of your marriage. And when you try to go and talk to him (knocking on the door first, of course, to be polite), he tells you it's time to to go back to your own room.
And no one will listen to you because they tell you, "Well, make him talk to you." And then one day, you come home from work... and discover he's moved out because the house is half-empty and all his things are gone. It takes you almost two days to track him down, and you find out he's moved into an apartment he had been setting up for quite some time behind your back.
Then after a month, he asks if he can come back, saying he's "so lucky to have someone who's willing to work on our problems" with him." Then after a few weeks, he announces he's taken a job an hour away, and says between the lines he is leaving you. Within another month, he's gone again. Within a few weeks, you get a certified letter in the mail saying, "YOU ARE BEING SUED FOR DIVORCE." Six months later, you see him at the court hearing--he tells the judge he can't talk to you and doesn't want you anymore and that's why he's asking for a divorce. Divorce granted, completely against your wishes. He never speaks to you ever again in your life. And he had been the love of your life.
The good church folk tell you it's too bad you weren't strong enough to hold your marriage together, and tell you that you can never remarry or you'd be committing a vile sin (and you're 25 years old.) Let me tell you, was I ever feeling the love of God!!!
Then you find out a year later through a friend that there had been someone else in his life, and you never knew until now.
Then you find out ten years later through a random contact on Facebook that he is now living in his dream location, working his dream job, married to someone else (when he'd screamed at you that marriage was hell and he'd never, ever do it again as long as he lived), and has a baby with her (when he'd told you he had no interest in having babies with you while you were married to him.)
And in the meantime, ALL your friends and family (including your 91-year-old grandpa) has a companion or has gotten married. And it feels like God rewards the ones who do you wrong while pretty much saying, "Tough noogies" to you.
And it's been 10 years, and you have no idea how you'll even meet someone, let alone the right one.
I see so many people here say they can't find someone and they're in their late teens, early twenties... sorry guys, I guess I don't have anything miraculous to say because I'm still waiting too and I hate it but I've tried to use the time to travel, experience new things, and hopefully follow God's plans for helping me become a better person for whoever it may be He might have for me.
May God grant you a smoother road and don't make all the stupid mistakes I rushed into without thinking because I wanted desperately to not be alone anymore. (And I kept repeating that mistake). May God bless you with the patience and contentment I didn't have!
*huggles* 
