I can understand where Pinkie is coming from, honestly, and the desire to "defend" homosexuals. I am not justifying this position. Rather, I can understand because I have been there.
Every day, there are people struggling with same sex attraction who have also been brought up in the truth of God. They know and understand that acting on homosexuality is wrong. The world tells them and invites them to "accept themselves" and to have "love", while members of the church seem to denounce the person entirely. If you were struggling with self hate....which of the two would seem more inviting?
They might be told that they're not "christian enough" that they're not "praying enough," and the world tells them they are "born this way" and that the world "loves them for who they truly are". In turn, they ask, Why would God make me this way if it was wrong? Their next logical thinking patterns are that either A) God is cruel or B) God does not exist or C) The church is wrong about the bible and they need to get over it.
Those who cannot reconcile these things within themselves feel tormented! Some of them commit suicide over it. It's very, very tragic. This is one of the few struggles with sin where the individual takes on the sin as their identity. For example: one may say, "I have a gambling addiction" or " I don't always tell the truth." Whereas with same sex attraction it is " I am gay." They are defining themselves by this! And in fact...the world reinforces this mentality.
Can't you see, brothers and sisters, that unless we help them see the difference...they see a hatred against homosexual behavior as hatred of the person. Claiming that this struggle is "all in their head" fails to acknowledge their need for God's love. (We all* have this need). Whether the person was born with this struggle as a thorn in the flesh, or if placed on them by the powers of darkness, it does not matter. They are in this struggle and many of them are seeking Him.
We need to show them that even if this sin is a natural predisposition(inborn) that they do not have to feel enslaved by it. There is freedom in Christ! While it may not mean that they suddenly develop heterosexual desires, it may also be that God gives them the strength to refrain and run from lust (as is my case). We need to show those who struggle with this sin that, just like heterosexuals, they too are asked to refrain.
There is danger in coming to this issue armed with anger, because as I said earlier, many of those who struggle with same sex attraction wear this sin as their identity. Proceed with caution and love.