Its not. People are born a sexuality. No one can choose to just be attracted to a certain gender.
i wasn't aware that freewill had been removed. are people born a certain way? yes, they are born sinful. to say that there isn't a choice, is to remove all responsibility from self and negates free will. physical attraction is based on desire. what you desire, isn't always whats best for you. rejecting what you desire is one of the hardest things a person can do. do we need to reject all the things we desire? no, but with the bible as a guide we should try and reject our sinful desires.
to call homosexuality sinful will shut off any homosexual from wanting to continue the discussion. they do not feel sinful, they do not feel what they are doing is wrong. the physical gratification they get, reinforces their thoughts that its normal. most unrepentant sinners also feel this way about the other sins they are also committing.
gratification of the flesh based on physical attraction or desire is not a spiritual act, for either the heterosexual or homosexual. this is why couples are supposed to be married before having a physical relationship. your vows are about your spiritual connection made before God. if they are only getting married because of the other person is physically/desirable sexually, odds are its not going to be a happy or long marriage. physical/sexual desires alone are not to be a deciding factor on who you marry and sleep with.
it's about a spiritual connection between two people. that spiritual connection between two people can happen between any two people. this does not mean there has to be a sexual nature between the two people. we have a choice in deciding who we will or will not have a physical relationship with.
why cant we have that physical/spiritual relationship with who ever we want to? well you can actually, but according to the bible you shouldn't be doing that with someone who is the same sex as you. i'm pretty sure it also says you shouldn't be doing it with your family members or with someone who isn't consensual or someone who is a child. most people will agree you shouldn't have sex with your family, children or though rape. no one is locked in at birth to being a heterosexual,pedophile,rapist,incestuous,asexual,homosexual or even a Christian. to claim otherwise negates freewill or choice.
what two consenting adults do is their own business, it's none of my business, but it certainly is part of Gods business. the bible has rules about what two consenting adults can and cannot do. to deny there is a choice is to deny freewill. to deny freewill/choice is to deny responsibility for our actions. if we have no freewill/choice in our actions than why is there a bible trying to guide us in making those choices. if there is no freewill/choice why are we held responsible for our sins? to deny freewill/choice is to deny God.
in order for us to accept that homosexuality is a not a choice, we have to deny our faith in God, the bible, ourselves and in freewill. we literally have to deny the choice we have personally made to believe. all so that we can accept the theory that YOU don't have a choice. after all if YOU do not have a choice, how in the hell do WE have a choice.
duewell
mark 4 v 11-13