A confession
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J
i sooooo regret making the sugardrawers statement. the op said she flirted with people so i was making a flirty reply to be funny, i tried to make it very over the top so everyone would see it was a joke and me just acting goofy. i didnt mean to offend anyone. i am sorry.
i am sure i will make more stupid comments as i always speak before i think but thinking about it now, its very easy why so many guys out there would be scared to talk to ladies in this day and age, wow!
i am sure i will make more stupid comments as i always speak before i think but thinking about it now, its very easy why so many guys out there would be scared to talk to ladies in this day and age, wow!
S
Awww that is kind of you to be like that SS
Not alot of men do that
And yes it DOES make a girl happy
Forgive me for interrupting. ..I just had to say
Thats very kind u are like that
God bless u all tonite
Not alot of men do that
And yes it DOES make a girl happy
Forgive me for interrupting. ..I just had to say
Thats very kind u are like that
God bless u all tonite
So... women do like compliments?
Why is it that when I give a woman a complement on say, a dating website, that's the end of the otherwise nice conversation? Literally I've got at least two experiences in recent memory where that was the case. Two sounds like a small sample size, but it's hard to get women to actually talk to me on said sites - mostly I pay to be ignored.
*shrug*
I'll probably crunch the numbers and drop some statistics this weekend.
Not really. It's not really that hard to stop and think "okay, what's this actually MEAN?" before saying it. Why mention anything about pants; haven't you heard the many crude phrases concerning them?
Maybe in some areas of the country this is not a gross comment; I don't know. Anyone who is used to "calling everyone that" should get out of the habit of doing so IMMEDIATELY, because it sounds sexual to a large percent of the population.
Maybe in some areas of the country this is not a gross comment; I don't know. Anyone who is used to "calling everyone that" should get out of the habit of doing so IMMEDIATELY, because it sounds sexual to a large percent of the population.
S
Well, it's drawers, not pants.
Drawers are the things you wear under pants.... the unmentionables. You keep drawers inside a drawer... Drawers are meant to be closed, and not seen. Even if your dresser was empty, you don't have company over and open the drawers to say "hey check out these drawers." You certainly don't do it if there are drawers in your drawers.
Thanks for the apology, JayBird. I think I did ok letting you know it was too far for me... but if you look at the original post, "Asexual flirting" were the words I used. I have a sales/sampling job where I come in contact with huge swaths of people of all ages. I call them "Honey, Sugar, Love, Sweets"... nothing too intimate. And because of this, when I'm expressing empathy or care for a person, I use a lot of "Honey" or "Love".
Sugardrawers does seem to me, and I guess others here, to be a bit too intimate. As far as I am aware, this was the first time you and I've interacted.... and that's cool. I'm not harboring any ill will or anything. Just noting that sugar combined with undergarments of any sort will make me uncomfy.
Hope you have an excellent evening!
Sugardrawers does seem to me, and I guess others here, to be a bit too intimate. As far as I am aware, this was the first time you and I've interacted.... and that's cool. I'm not harboring any ill will or anything. Just noting that sugar combined with undergarments of any sort will make me uncomfy.
Hope you have an excellent evening!
Thanks for the apology, JayBird. I think I did ok letting you know it was too far for me... but if you look at the original post, "Asexual flirting" were the words I used. I have a sales/sampling job where I come in contact with huge swaths of people of all ages. I call them "Honey, Sugar, Love, Sweets"... nothing too intimate. And because of this, when I'm expressing empathy or care for a person, I use a lot of "Honey" or "Love".
I also call little kids "Grandpa", and the elderly "Kiddo". I'm kinda weird.
But really? I want people thinking outside of their comfort zone. I make a lot of flavors that seem challenging to people, so I try to get them to think a little outside the box and to trust me quickly. I do this through a fairly sassy attitude, i.e.; after sampling something that seems safe to the individual, I'll ask if they trust me now to challenge their palate. And when they like what they are tasting, I give a big grin and tell them "See, you like me better right now, dontcha?" It's just a silly schtick that I do, but I genuinely like people. Because I do this, I know how to set my boundaries and shut down any unwanted attention.
J
Thanks for the apology, JayBird. I think I did ok letting you know it was too far for me... but if you look at the original post, "Asexual flirting" were the words I used. I have a sales/sampling job where I come in contact with huge swaths of people of all ages. I call them "Honey, Sugar, Love, Sweets"... nothing too intimate. And because of this, when I'm expressing empathy or care for a person, I use a lot of "Honey" or "Love".
Sugardrawers does seem to me, and I guess others here, to be a bit too intimate. As far as I am aware, this was the first time you and I've interacted.... and that's cool. I'm not harboring any ill will or anything. Just noting that sugar combined with undergarments of any sort will make me uncomfy.
Hope you have an excellent evening!
Sugardrawers does seem to me, and I guess others here, to be a bit too intimate. As far as I am aware, this was the first time you and I've interacted.... and that's cool. I'm not harboring any ill will or anything. Just noting that sugar combined with undergarments of any sort will make me uncomfy.
Hope you have an excellent evening!