And I haven't changed my mind and my post reflected that -
Do I believe that if I tell my granddaughter that a picture she colored was pretty (although it's not), I will still be saved? Do I believe that if I answer the phone at work, and my boss has told me to tell them he is not in (although he is), I will still be saved? Do I believe that if my husband asked me upon waking "Ain't I good lookin" - I say yes honey (although neither one of us look that great first thing in the mornings), I will still be saved? In all situations - Yes, I will still be saved even though I have lied. My salvation is NOT dependent on my "behavior", i.e. walk - my salvation is dependent upon whom I have placed my trust in.
But in my "walk", if/when I sin - there is a break in my relationship with the Father and the Son - so I will need to restore that fellowship and that is why I ask forgiveness to repair that broken fellowship and my advocate, Jesus Christ stands before my Father as my defense counsel - I am then cleansed and restored in my fellowship with the Father and the Son.
But you said before that fellowship has nothing to do with salvation, right? In other words, if you tell someone this, it is misleading and it can make someone think that holiness is optional when it comes to salvation. So then they will have no real incentive to do good because they got their ticket to Heaven and can live like they used to live (as a part of their old sinful life). But what makes it more confusing is that you say you do confess and abide in fellowship with Him. The problem I have with all this is not only is it immoral to teach that one can sin and still be saved, but you are not always upfront about it.