What do women want? Guys only!

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Wow, what did I miss? I didn't expect to see that many comments only in one day!
 
Mitspa said:
No you could watch a episode of the View..and you have it...men are bad...women are good bla bla bla
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I can see you're frustrated and I know how it feels, believe me. I'm not picking sides here but I don't think they think men are bad and women are good. From what I understand by reading all the comments (both of men and women) I see that the "problem" women have with men is that it seems as if they can't have their own opinion because their wife or future-wife doesn't think the same about a certain topic.

Men and women are made different from one another with a purpose I believe and at times it won't be easy for the both of them. This is certainly the case in marriage. Marriage is and always will be a beautiful thing created by God for our happiness and feeling both secure and spiritually strengthened by each other - but - we are not computers and can't make a list of things I like and believe in and then compare it with the woman I'm looking for to marry. I think when the Lord is guiding it (meeting each other) and when it is His will that you will be married, I believe He will bless the both of you and make the both of you able to have a good marriage, even though you disagree on many things.
 
Shawn2516 said:
post a men only topic, women invade it.

I think this is seriously unfair.. I have a friend (who is a female), and she told me that this forum has a ONLY FEMALE viewing post all for themselves.

Men don't have one, they have to make a public post for both male and female viewers to see.. which means men don't get any privacy, but women do. Privilege much?

Men NEED their own space to express themselves. So this whole time men are just wanting space for themselves, women keep all their talks private in some other hidden forum. This is freaking hypocritical.
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Create a private group! You can do that in fact any man that wants to can create a mens only club, can do so. Your last sentence didnt fool anyone btw. We know what you wanted to say . Clean up the thought life and the tongue will follow:)
Im not trying to be snarky here brother. I dont like to see christians curse. Blessings :)
 
gypsygirl said:
actually, i'm a little curious if YOU read it. : )


beth, welcome to the forum. it's great to see new faces.

also, what you wrote was a little confusing for me. can you please clarify how it is that the man you're dating "takes you sexually" in a manner that makes you feel respected and cared for? and,especially as a christian woman? because i'm not sure i'd feel terribly loved or respected by a boyfriend who was okay with having sex with me before we were married.

perhaps i'm misunderstanding what being "taken sexually" means. because, where i'm from, it doesn't mean he takes you to a square dance. : ) maybe you mean something else by that phrase.

anyway, i'd be grateful if you'd clarify yourself.
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Spot on :)
 
Brother_J_BELGIUM said:
I can see you're frustrated and I know how it feels, believe me. I'm not picking sides here but I don't think they think men are bad and women are good. From what I understand by reading all the comments (both of men and women) I see that the "problem" women have with men is that it seems as if they can't have their own opinion because their wife or future-wife doesn't think the same about a certain topic.

Men and women are made different from one another with a purpose I believe and at times it won't be easy for the both of them. This is certainly the case in marriage. Marriage is and always will be a beautiful thing created by God for our happiness and feeling both secure and spiritually strengthened by each other - but - we are not computers and can't make a list of things I like and believe in and then compare it with the woman I'm looking for to marry. I think when the Lord is guiding it (meeting each other) and when it is His will that you will be married, I believe He will bless the both of you and make the both of you able to have a good marriage, even though you disagree on many things.
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Do you guys have "the view" over there? its was a good joke :) not frustrated and thanks for the encouragement but I recently decided Im staying single :)
 
Mitspa said:
Do you guys have "the view" over there? its was a good joke :) not frustrated and thanks for the encouragement but I recently decided Im staying single :)
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We don't, I've actually never heard of it. We do have a lot of American shows here on television though. And you're welcome, if you realize you've (currently) decided to remain single because you believe it's better for you, it will be a blessing. Paul says it is better to remain unmarried unless you feel the need to.
 
Anything I'm banned from count me in :p

Maybe we should have a "what do men want - women only" thread...oh hang on we all know what men want don't we ladies? LOL ;)
 
ChandlerFan said:
Especially in a thread that women aren't allowed to post in... kidding!! Only kidding :p
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You ever wonder why there was silence in heaven for 30 minutes! Revelation 8:1.
Were the women taking a nap?

I am only kidding, also. I'm doomed. ;)
 
Dear brothers, as you requested, I offer no opinion. But I do recommend this movie to men & women alike. "Life With Father" with William Powell & Irene Dunne. It's pretty old fashioned but it possesses the secret of a happy marriage.... and the father reveals to his oldest son the secret of understanding women! There's a heck of a lot of hysterical moments, too. An excellent movie. That is all. :o

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Mitspa said:
Not sure...maybe you remind me of someone I trust..and you do come at things from a very honest and reasonable place :)
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Thank you, I do try to see things from both sides and wonder why someone with an opposing opinion thinks the way they do, as in the "gun" debate. Sometimes I've even been known to change my opinion....well it's a woman's privilege - apparently. Finding God was a 180 degree turnaround. :)
 
MadParrotWoman said:
Anything I'm banned from count me in :p

Maybe we should have a "what do men want - women only" thread...oh hang on we all know what men want don't we ladies? LOL ;)
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If I think I get what you're implying, then YEAH! I mean, I think it would be nice to finally find out what all the 'talk' is about. Just want to know what it's like to love and be loved by one true woman. I'm sorry, but I hope that's not too much to ask. All that beauty and I can't even look for more than a second or it's considered lust, Let alone touch! It's very frustrating.
 
VioletReigns said:
Dear brothers, as you requested, I offer no opinion. But I do recommend this movie to men & women alike. "Life With Father" with William Powell & Irene Dunne. It's pretty old fashioned but it possesses the secret of a happy marriage.... and the father reveals to his oldest son the secret of understanding women! There's a heck of a lot of hysterical moments, too. An excellent movie. That is all. :o

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Must be a series. 32 parts. 120 minutes each. Has to be. :eek:
 
sydlit said:
If I think I get what you're implying, then YEAH! I mean, I think it would be nice to finally find out what all the 'talk' is about. Just want to know what it's like to love and be loved by one true woman. I'm sorry, but I hope that's not too much to ask. All that beauty and I can't even look for more than a second or it's considered lust, Let alone touch! It's very frustrating.
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Good point...do all women think that all men are sex-starved maniacs ? Maybe some of us guys have more control than many of the women? At least that's been my experience since I have been a believer.
 
Mitspa said:
Good point...do all women think that all men are sex-starved maniacs ? Maybe some of us guys have more control than many of the women? At least that's been my experience since I have been a believer.
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Yes, I guess I was thinking of secular guys, like those I encounter at work.

Regarding the OP, I think if I told you all what women want it would take away the fun of guessing lol.
 
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