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Levichevett

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Levichevett, you must already know that most people on this site will disagree with you, and the decisions you made and call good. I am in that camp, however I have a question. I have heard something about the physiology of the brain. For whatever reason did you have a lot of stress as a child? I don't need to know any details, but was there a long period when you were continually stressed? Thanks for any info you can provide.
yes..a lot...
 
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I don't know what ppl who says its wrong want from me. I want to fall in love someone and spend the rest of my life with them. So your saying I shouldn't do that with a guy but I can't do that with a girl either cos there's no feelings there. I can lie to a girl and say I love her and lead a 'good' Christian life but then God would see right through that and I'd probably end up in hell and anyway id hate myself if I did that so I wouldn't call that a good option really. So I guess that leaves forgetting about love and just being alone. To some that might be the right path for u I know that some ppl do that but that isn't me. When I think about what I want to gain from life that is not a part of it. Why wouldn't God want me to be happy
 
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Ive had to take some deep breaths reading a couple of the adult comments. I doubt the lovely levichett and Planetzorb were seeking the comments forecasting doom. I think maybe they were talking to us teens. If adults comment they are sure allowed to but I really wish you'd cut-out the old-school hit with a stick approach to communicating. Lemme guess what Levichett and Planet Zorbs response was.....*reading first line and... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz* constructive answers sparks some interest - -ve blabs just close their ears.

As for me - guys you two are so brave - I really wish I had your courage. I know you guys wanna be open and honest. I hope you find people who you can bounce off. You guys still hold to Christian ideals or at least trying to work out what your believe and think and feel. All I can say is yeah me too!!! I hope I see u guys around in the teen room or PM me if you want. If things get u down reach out to someone with counselling skills - I promise you it does help if u allow it. I use a journal and I wouldn't have believed how that's helped me. Hang onto your spiritual journey - not all adults here were harsh so take it in n think about it.... but aside from that... massive hugs for you both. You guys rock for being so brave :)
Hit with the stick approach? Good one! LOL... now that was wisdom speaking wasnt it? Should we all sit around and hold hands and sing kumbayah? If you want wisdom,you ask adults who are mature in their faith. If you want to be patted on the back you ask your peers who are babies, weak in the faith, or not christians at all. Which are you zoii?

The truth is harsh to those who have wrong thinking and have made up a version of God in their minds to be okay with their sin. The truth is harsh to those who think God is okay with sexual immorality of any kind. I dont see one iota of regenerated thought patterns nor any knowledge of scripture from the OP ,the first respondent or you for that matter! How do they hold on to christian ideals? Please explain that to me. Explain to me how what you read is any different than what mature christian adults read. What is brave about blaming God for their wrong thinking? Are you a christian zoii? Is there any truth in you?
 
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No. It's wrong. period. Like you really have to sharpie certain verses in your bible if you want to believe that homosexuality is not sin and besides it isn't right logically...if God made man and women and then gave them the opportunity to pro-create then why can't male/male or female/female do that.

No, what you're doing is saying that you can live any way you want and God still gives you a pat on the back? I know this sounds rude but you're a liar and the truth isn't in you. Yes, you can be BORN a homosexual but that doesn't mean it's right...we are born and shaped by sin. A baby doesn't have to be taught to lie, steal, or even be violent. They grow up violent, lying, and stealing without having to be taught that because we are born and shaped by sin. Does it make anymore right? No? same thing... No matter how much you want to sugarcoat it or how much it "Feels" right. It doesn't make it so. People can fall in "Love" all the time but get divorced a year later...feelings aren't the truth. Feelings are fickle. I don't feel like praying everyday and I don't feel like going to church sometimes but if I let feelings guide my life I would be a broken mess.

It is very much wrong and there is no amount of scripture twisting you can do to make it right.

To the original poster- It sounds like you have pretty much decided what you want, but I ask that you really and truly pray...you came here for a reason. You could have vented anywhere else but you came here. Just seek God man. We all have desires we struggle with everyday but God has given us the victory at the cross. Even if you decide on whatever, stay in the word, keep praying, fasting, and seeking God with all of your heart.
Noone is born a homosexual. God does not contradict himself .
 
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Levichevett

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your sexuality is something your born with. There's a point in your life where you become aware of your sexuality but that isn't choosing it. tell me, when exactly did you choose to be straight? What were you before you chose? I guess if it's a choice then everyone must start off bi so that they could then choose there sexuality.
 
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Levichevett

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It doesn't really matter whether or not ppl like me or not or what they think about me. Gods the only one who really knows me and he knows how much faith I've got and who I am so honestly you can say what you want but in the end you don't really know anything about anything
 
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Levi because you are on a Christian website you cannot expect people to pat you on the back saying "good for you". We should not judge you but I can tell you that the Bible is clear on God's view about homosexuality... what people tend to forget is that sin is sin in God's eyes and many people here are going to tell you "bad Levi" while struggling with something themselves :) . That is why we all need grace my young friend. Hope this message encourage you to fight the good fight for Christ brother :) .
 

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@ blondiendahouse - your seeking a response from me but I'll confine my responses to teens who have commented not the adults. I say that not to be impolite but I always felt like the teen room was a place for us to discuss our issues freely.
 
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Ugly

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Y'all need to calm down. We all share different opinions and we need to learn to embrace diversity. Please do not attack me for my own personal beliefs. Remember to do all things in love, not hate and intolerance. God bless x
Who attacked you and where? In fact I don't see where, up to that point, anyone even acknowledged you directly. Don't be such a martyr.
Also this is a public form, so it's people's rights.... It's expected actually that people will speak up if they disaagree.
Laslty you come to a site where yo know that the people here follow the bible, which no matter how many times you say 'opinion' is not our opinion, and are. Bothered that people don't accept your denial of the bibles words and promotion of secular culture.
No one was attacked, people just made valid points that shot down the failed arguments offered. Just because you were on the losing end doesn't mean you were attacked.
Land that doesn't mean hate and intolerance either. Those words are thrown around by some of the biggest hypocrites often times. People, long before you were born, were able to disagree and understand that. It's not till the force feeding LGBT hypocritical agenda did the idea that disagreeing meant hate and intolerance (for everyone else, but not them).
 
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@ blondiendahouse - your seeking a response from me but I'll confine my responses to teens who have commented not the adults. I say that not to be impolite but I always felt like the teen room was a place for us to discuss our issues but so often it becomes a place for adults to vent at us.

Is it a secret if you are a christian or not? Yes or no will do
 

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Who attacked you and where? In fact I don't see where, up to that point, anyone even acknowledged you directly. Don't be such a martyr.
Also this is a public form, so it's people's rights.... It's expected actually that people will speak up if they disaagree.
Laslty you come to a site where yo know that the people here follow the bible, which no matter how many times you say 'opinion' is not our opinion, and are. Bothered that people don't accept your denial of the bibles words and promotion of secular culture.
No one was attacked, people just made valid points that shot down the failed arguments offered. Just because you were on the losing end doesn't mean you were attacked.
Land that doesn't mean hate and intolerance either. Those words are thrown around by some of the biggest hypocrites often times. People, long before you were born, were able to disagree and understand that. It's not till the force feeding LGBT hypocritical agenda did the idea that disagreeing meant hate and intolerance (for everyone else, but not them).
Do you feel better now that you have that off your chest
 
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Do you feel better now that you have that off your chest
Why would he feel better? You are a very disrespectful little girl. Do you talk to adults like that in person to their face? Why arent you in bed? Dont you have school? Do your parents know you are online at the wee hrs in the morning ?
 
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Why would he feel better? You are a very disrespectful little girl. Do you talk to adults like that in person to their face? Why arent you in bed? Dont you have school? Do your parents know you are online at the wee hrs in the morning ?
In Aussie it is not that late at night even afternoon :)
 
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Levichevett

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I don't think there's a way to delete a thread (if there is pls tell me) so I'm going to ask please can everyone stop replying to this becuase There's to much being said that just isn't helping anyone.
 

zoii

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What I like about teens is they adopt a code of conduct where we speak kindly to each other. We are supportive even when we have different views. We do not say things that are cruel or aimed at ridiculing each other.

Even though this is a TEEN forum adults will comment and add advice. My issues with adult advice is not about the content or intent to advise, its about the way some choose to deliver the message. If its delivered with sensitivity its appreciated, but where its delivered so that it leaves the teen feeling ridiculed or victimised its not appreciated in this room.

@ blondieindahouse. That's the explanation I hope u appreciate. The personal questions you've asked me are between me, my family and my pastor and not something I would discuss with a stranger in a public forum.
 
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What I like about teens is they adopt a code of conduct where we speak kindly to each other. We are supportive even when we have different views. We do not say things that are cruel or aimed at ridiculing each other.

Even though this is a TEEN forum adults will comment and add advice. My issues with adult advice is not about the content or intent to advise, its about the way some choose to deliver the message. If its delivered with sensitivity its appreciated, but where its delivered so that it leaves the teen feeling ridiculed or victimised its not appreciated in this room.

@ blondieindahouse. That's the explanation I hope u appreciate. The personal questions you've asked me are between me, my family and my pastor and not something I would discuss with a stranger in a public forum.
Well since this is a christian forum I do not think its an unfair question! Why are you afraid to discuss whether you walk with Christ?

Matthew 10:
32"Therefore everyone who confesses Me before men, I will also confess him before My Father who is in heaven. 33"But whoever denies Me before men, I will also deny him before My Father who is in heaven.

Ill assume you are not a christian. That way I dont have to ponder this truth concerning you zoii