No, God does not hate divorce. What he dislikes is husbands not loving their wives as Christ loves the Church. But what does He say, what do you read? I apologize for the Bible to be geared toward the male of the species. But the meaning of the words come from the male to the female.
Mat 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
Read that repeatedly. Save for what? What does that mean?
πορνεία
porneia
por-ni'-ah
From G4203; harlotry (including adultery and incest); figuratively idolatry: - fornication.
G4203
πορνεύω
porneuō
porn-yoo'-o
From G4204; to act the harlot, that is, (literally) indulge unlawful lust (of either sex), or (figuratively) practise idolatry: - commit (fornication).
G4204
πόρνη
pornē
por'-nay
Feminine of G4205; a strumpet; figuratively an idolater: - harlot, whore.
G4205
πόρνος
pornos
por'-nos
From πέρνημι pernēmi (to sell; akin to the base of G4097); a (male) prostitute (as venal), that is, (by analogy) a debauchee (libertine): - fornicator, whoremonger.
So, in the beginning if the woman (or man) were to become attached to someone else, not necessarily sexually, but in the form of allegiance, so much so that it would cause disruptions in the fulfillment of the one desire, that would not be a cause for divorce.
But, that gets into the eating of the fruit of the tree that the woman, later named Eve, ate and gave to the man who was told not to eat.
But that gets into the whole battle between Satan and God.