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Like seriously i'm always ignored by almost everyone at almost everythig. there's no exemption, not even here. It's not that i want attention, its just that sometimes i think i'm TOO invisible. Well, whatever, it doesnt matter.
 
I'm seeing that mostly you post in the Teens and YA forums. Neither of these are heavily read or used. So part of the problem here on CC may be that you're posting in sections of the site that do not receive a lot of traffic.
But i also see, by looking through your posting history, that you do get responses. Maybe not a lot, but you do get them. Perhaps it's better to focus on the responses that you get instead of focusing on the ones you don't.
Lastly, by posting in sections that are not busy, this means people will not be engaging in many conversations in these areas. It may benefit you to try other areas of the site, look for threads that are active and try to include yourself that way.
You haven't really posted very much, either. 34 posts in 9 months is a small amount. Therefore, if you want to be noticed more here..
-pick areas of the forums that are used more
-post in threads that are active
-become more active in your own posting
-focus more on the replies you get instead of feeling you don't get enough responses

It takes time to get into groups online. Unless you are a boisterous personality, which i can tell you are not. But in that time you have to be active. Posting more than once or twice a day. Also, one thread you started i saw no title, therefore no title to click on. There was a work around, but not all people may figure out how to view it anyways. So that didn't help any.
 
achee said:
Like seriously i'm always ignored by almost everyone at almost everythig. there's no exemption, not even here. It's not that i want attention, its just that sometimes i think i'm TOO invisible. Well, whatever, it doesnt matter.
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Ugly's response is right. The YA and teens forums are rarely ever visited. If you want to be noticed more, go into the singles or miscellaneous or family forums..I hang out in miscellaneous and singles because they are two of the funnest, most active threads. :o
 
achee said:
Like seriously i'm always ignored by almost everyone at almost everythig. there's no exemption, not even here. It's not that i want attention, its just that sometimes i think i'm TOO invisible. Well, whatever, it doesnt matter.
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Hello achee. I will have to agree with ugly reply. Like you have only posted around 34 posts, To get really noticed you may have to post more and on topics that will grasp them to answer. I also noticed you have not acknowledged the ones who has answered your post already, so arent you doing the same to ignore? Just saying. you say in your postWel whatever, it doesnt matter, well obviously it does matter otherwise you wouldnt of posted it.
 
Ugly said:
I'm seeing that mostly you post in the Teens and YA forums. Neither of these are heavily read or used. So part of the problem here on CC may be that you're posting in sections of the site that do not receive a lot of traffic.
But i also see, by looking through your posting history, that you do get responses. Maybe not a lot, but you do get them. Perhaps it's better to focus on the responses that you get instead of focusing on the ones you don't.
Lastly, by posting in sections that are not busy, this means people will not be engaging in many conversations in these areas. It may benefit you to try other areas of the site, look for threads that are active and try to include yourself that way.
You haven't really posted very much, either. 34 posts in 9 months is a small amount. Therefore, if you want to be noticed more here..
-pick areas of the forums that are used more
-post in threads that are active
-become more active in your own posting
-focus more on the replies you get instead of feeling you don't get enough responses

It takes time to get into groups online. Unless you are a boisterous personality, which i can tell you are not. But in that time you have to be active. Posting more than once or twice a day. Also, one thread you started i saw no title, therefore no title to click on. There was a work around, but not all people may figure out how to view it anyways. So that didn't help any.
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i'm sorry..
 
Ugly said:
I'm seeing that mostly you post in the Teens and YA forums. Neither of these are heavily read or used. So part of the problem here on CC may be that you're posting in sections of the site that do not receive a lot of traffic.
But i also see, by looking through your posting history, that you do get responses. Maybe not a lot, but you do get them. Perhaps it's better to focus on the responses that you get instead of focusing on the ones you don't.
Lastly, by posting in sections that are not busy, this means people will not be engaging in many conversations in these areas. It may benefit you to try other areas of the site, look for threads that are active and try to include yourself that way.
You haven't really posted very much, either. 34 posts in 9 months is a small amount. Therefore, if you want to be noticed more here..
-pick areas of the forums that are used more
-post in threads that are active
-become more active in your own posting
-focus more on the replies you get instead of feeling you don't get enough responses

It takes time to get into groups online. Unless you are a boisterous personality, which i can tell you are not. But in that time you have to be active. Posting more than once or twice a day. Also, one thread you started i saw no title, therefore no title to click on. There was a work around, but not all people may figure out how to view it anyways. So that didn't help any.
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i'm sorry...
 
blue_ladybug said:
Ugly's response is right. The YA and teens forums are rarely ever visited. If you want to be noticed more, go into the singles or miscellaneous or family forums..I hang out in miscellaneous and singles because they are two of the funnest, most active threads. :o
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I'm sorry...
 
Richie_2uk said:
Hello achee. I will have to agree with ugly reply. Like you have only posted around 34 posts, To get really noticed you may have to post more and on topics that will grasp them to answer. I also noticed you have not acknowledged the ones who has answered your post already, so arent you doing the same to ignore? Just saying. you say in your postWel whatever, it doesnt matter, well obviously it does matter otherwise you wouldnt of posted it.
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I'm sorry...
 
Given by the amount of posts you have, you don't seem to post very often. It makes it harder for people to notice you are here if one doesn't post or take part in conversations often. Unless you hang out in the chat rooms rather than the forums (will have to say that you should be careful since some people there may have ill intentions when contacting you, but I'm sure you know about that by now) then people will not notice as much.

The best I can suggest is to post under topics that you may know well about, find humorous or anything that comes to interest you. Reply to people that bring up interesting posts and can be directed to anyone who'll listen. Make sure to reply and/or like anyone who responds to your discussions so it won't appear like you're ignoring them. Eventually you will attract like-minded people to contact you.
 
"I'm sorry."?

There are four types of communication.... Aggressive, Passive, Passive-Aggressive, and Assertive. Of the four, only one is truly effective. Care to guess which one?

Spend some time researching what distinguishes each one, and what kinds of responses each garners. (It won't be hard, nor take long on Google)

Just possessing this knowledge will help you understand why you either do, or do not, receive replies to certain posts.
 
achee said:
i'm sorry..
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Why are you apologizing? No one is putting you down or criticizing you. You haven't offended anyone. I was just pointing out some of the reasons you may feel you're not feeling accepted here and what you can do to change this. Nothing to apologize about, just consider what's said and if you have a real interest in being more accepted try using the information given to you to do so.
:D
 
Why would u be ignored... but i saw this once and only got to return now. Have u dropped by again?
 
Lady Blueladybug stooped to talk to you the rest should be a breeze. ;)

Being ignored is my biggest social angst, I really hate it and I get it so much including family.
 
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