Dear lady. I'm not being nearly as harsh as you think . I suppose you think that because of my failure to completely communicate my thought. All I'm really saying is that you can trust your born again spirit a lot more than you think.
I mean really, is there any truly born again person that would honestly say that it's fine to lie, fornicate, bear false witness, worship other Gods, kill, steal, or break any of what we know as the commandments just because they have never read that commandment? Even if they have sin in their lives, I believe that as they read and study the word and get to know God, the Holy Spirit will deal with them to correct it. At least that's how it has been in my life.
I'm not telling anyone to forget the Bible and just do whatever feels right to them. What I would like to convey though is that we need to develop a closer relationship with the Holy Spirit and learn to hear from him. I would much rather we learn to follow the Holy Spirit than have every Christian know all 613 of the laws. If we could only learn this profound truth, the Holy Spirit would lead us much better in every area of life.