Why do we actually want to rebel?

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Hello all young adult, those about to be an adult. Those that have been. Everyone even.

What is it about us that makes us want to rebel?

What is it about that when someone says don't do it we want to do it. When someone says do it we don't want to do it?

Why do we want to do those things which they tell us not to do?

Is it to do with wisdom? Ie; smart people learn from other peoples mistakes, fools learn from their own.

Do you know what I'm on about? How can you answer this in a biblical way?
 
What makes us want to rebel is basically the fact that we were born into sin and its a part of our nature. As Paul said in Romans it is a struggle we face daily between wanting to do good but doing the opposite at times. Ultimately to rebel is of the flesh and its only by dying daily to those desires and feeding the spirit one would be able to overcome. I do hope this was helpful in answering your question.
 
What makes us want to rebel is basically the fact that we were born into sin and its a part of our nature. As Paul said in Romans it is a struggle we face daily between wanting to do good but doing the opposite at times. Ultimately to rebel is of the flesh and its only by dying daily to those desires and feeding the spirit one would be able to overcome. I do hope this was helpful in answering your question.

This. Plus the devil's lies.
 
Lets be honest, rebellion is fun. Walking the straight and narrow isn't all that fun. It is demanding but comes a greater reward.
 
I agree with Nitro, rebelling often looks glossy and appetising. Hence we must exercise self control and understand that it is not worth it.
 
This. Plus the devil's lies.


Were definitely guided and tempted by the enemy, and we do totally allow all his "justifications" for our desires (anyone ever heard the argument "it doesnt hurt anyone"?), but it is us who decide to take it and live it out ourselves, which makes us responsible for our own sins.



And we rebel because we are a selfish people who are focused entirely on pleasing ourselves before everything over doing what is right, and set our hearts on enjoying life to its fullest. In our natural state we seek to please ourselves exclusively, we do not seek God.


That is why the gospel is the good news, God stuck out His right hand for us to save us from our own selfish deeds :p
 
Alas..we live in the aftermath of S.I.N. the letter "I" is always in the middle...meaning we are always prone to do it. Is this a good enough answer? lol
 
Humans are all sinful. We need Jesus to cleanse us of our sins and help us lead a better life. The thing is we still sin everyday and we need to continue to battle against wrong. Our spiritual self wants to do good and wants God's will in everything but we still have the sinful nature inside of us and sometimes we give in and do bad things. I think the more mature we are spiritually, the easier it gets to make wiser decisions :)

Also, sometimes people just like to prove others wrong. It's not really about rebellion but more about seeing what we can do. Like I remember this girl in middle school told me I couldn't make the tennis team because I'm short and couldn't run fast. I got mad, worked hard all summer, tried out and made the junior high tennis team!
It could even be against ourselves. Like in 5th grade my teacher had a reading competition for all the class to participate in. The top three students would go to eat lunch with her at a restaurant. I told myself from the get go, that I probably wasn't going to be on the top three. However, I proved myself wrong and I did make it. Sometimes I was even the first one throughout the year!
 
Hello all young adult, those about to be an adult. Those that have been. Everyone even.

What is it about us that makes us want to rebel?

What is it about that when someone says don't do it we want to do it. When someone says do it we don't want to do it?

Why do we want to do those things which they tell us not to do?

Is it to do with wisdom? Ie; smart people learn from other peoples mistakes, fools learn from their own.

Do you know what I'm on about? How can you answer this in a biblical way?

Have you ever read the Adventures of Huckleberry Finn? Basically, Huck Finn is this little kid with an abusive dad who tried to steal all Huck's money. Huck Finn goes to a strict Christian school, and, like most kids, he hates it. Through the story it's shown that Huck Finn's community are staunchly religious and Huck, as an inquisitive and imaginative boy, finds this tedious and oppressive. Part of the way through the story, Huck comes upon a runaway slave called Jim, who's tried to escape from a horrible slaver named Mrs Watson. Huck, knowing that it is both legally and morally frowned upon in is culture for him to help the escaped slave, chooses to help Jim nonetheless, because deep down he knows it's the right thing to do.

That's a good example of why rebellion against the law, and the current moral norms, isn't always a bad thing. Huck defied the teachings of his school, his church, his community and the law, in order to help Jim, and I'm sure there wouldn't be many people on this thread who would disagree, morally, with Huck's decision. To be honest, I'd like to think that all of us, you and I included, imagine that we'd also help Jim if we were in Huck's shoes.

But this is where it gets interesting: if not from the church, his parents, the law, or his culture, then where did Huck's morality come from? Well, I think it comes from something a lot simpler than rules and regulations. Huck sees the pain and anguish on Jim's face, and Huck listens to Jim's story and Huck knows it isn't right: Huck wouldn't like it to happen to him. And that's where Huck's decision comes from. Huck didn't need to be taught what was right: it was already part of him, just the same as it's already part of us. And when we think purely, empathetically, when we put ourselves in other people's shoes, we can make the right decisions despite, and even without, the rules of a religion or law or a broken social moral code.

So the way I see it, not all instructions are to be followed and not all authorities are to be respected.