Okay, but let's say you HAVEN'T planned ahead. One of you develops dementia, and loses all touch with reality. Hubby says he wants to sell the house, and live out of your vehicle. Or some such crazy request. Now obviously YOU know he doesn't know what he's saying, BUT do you still submit to his wishes, and sell the house and live out of your car? And if you DON'T, how is that submitting to what he says?
i know, i know, my examples are silly..
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lol