Obedience is a gift.
Trying to obey something that you think is what God wants you to obey is rebellion. Its called leaning on your own understanding.
The words do not make sense. We are commanded to obey. The question is obey what and how, trying to obey is of the flesh so abandon any attempt or desire to obey, just let Jesus. Now if you expand the idea I might agree with you, but this is just too general. Sin is sin. If you are in it, repent and walk away.
Let me say things in a theortical form. I am angry against my parents for not being able to provide x for me. They stop me going out etc. Now I need to work through many issues to put my frustration into context and stop the anger. The anger is very real, but just trying to stop it will do nothing, because I am not addressing the cause. Obedience would be accepting I am angry but still honouring my parents and not showing my anger, but bringing it before the Lord and working through things as He leads.
Now this is my view on obedience and letting Jesus work through things in my life. But without this content, you could be saying let it rip which for me is real rebellion. Saying obedience is rebellion is turning right into wrong.