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yes men do cry and there is nothing wrong with it. As I've cried.
In the Word of God men cried and wept.
Genesis 27:38 Esau said to his father, “Do you have only one blessing, my father? Bless me too, my father!” Then Esau wept aloud.
Genesis 29:11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel and began to weep aloud.
Genesis 33:4 But Esau ran to meet Jacob and embraced him; he threw his arms around his neck and kissed him. And they wept.
Genesis 37:35 All his sons and daughters came to comfort him, but he refused to be comforted. “No,” he said, “in mourning will I go down to the grave to my son.” So his father wept for him.
Genesis 42:24 He turned away from them and began to weep, but then turned back and spoke to them again. He had Simeon taken from them and bound before their eyes.
Genesis 43:30 Deeply moved at the sight of his brother, Joseph hurried out and looked for a place to weep. He went into his private room and wept there.
Genesis 45:2 And he wept so loudly that the Egyptians heard him, and Pharaoh’s household heard about it.
Genesis 45:14 Then he threw his arms around his brother Benjamin and wept, and Benjamin embraced him, weeping.
Genesis 45:15 And he kissed all his brothers and wept over them. Afterward his brothers talked with him.
Genesis 46:29 Joseph had his chariot made ready and went to Goshen to meet his father Israel. As soon as Joseph appeared before him, he threw his arms around his father and wept for a long time.
Genesis 50:1 Joseph threw himself upon his father and wept over him and kissed him.
Genesis 50:17 ‘This is what you are to say to Joseph: I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly.’ Now please forgive the sins of the servants of the God of your father.” When their message came to him, Joseph wept.
1 Samuel 20:41 After the boy had gone, David got up from the south side of the stone and bowed down before Jonathan three times, with his face to the ground. Then they kissed each other and wept together – but David wept the most.
1 Samuel 24:16 When David finished saying this, Saul asked, “Is that your voice, David my son?” And he wept aloud.
1 Samuel 30:4 So David and his men wept aloud until they had no strength left to weep.
2 Samuel 1:12 They mourned and wept and fasted till evening for Saul and his son Jonathan, and for the army of the Lord and the house of Israel, because they had fallen by the sword.
2 Samuel 3:16 Her husband, however, went with her, weeping behind her all the way to Bahurim. Then Abner said to him, “Go back home!” So he went back.
2 Samuel 3:32 They buried Abner in Hebron, and the king wept aloud at Abner’s tomb. All the people wept also.
2 Samuel 12:21 His servants asked him, “Why are you acting this way? While the child was alive, you fasted and wept, but now that the child is dead, you get up and eat!”
2 Samuel 12:22 He answered, “While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought, ‘Who knows? The Lord may be gracious to me and let the child live.’
2 Samuel 13:36 As he finished speaking, the king’s sons came in, wailing loudly. The king, too, and all his servants wept very bitterly.
2 Samuel 15:30 But David continued up the Mount of Olives, weeping as he went; his head was covered and he was barefoot. All the people with him covered their heads too and were weeping as they went up.
2 Samuel 18:33 The king was shaken. He went up to the room over the gateway and wept. As he went, he said: “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you – O Absalom, my son, my son!”
2 Samuel 19:1 Joab was told, “The king is weeping and mourning for Absalom.”
2 Kings 8:11 He stared at him with a fixed gaze until Hazael felt ashamed. Then the man of God began to weep.
2 Kings 8:12 “Why is my lord weeping?” asked Hazael. “Because I know the harm you will do to the Israelites,” he answered. “You will set fire to their fortified places, kill their young men with the sword, dash their little children to the ground, and rip open their pregnant women.”
2 Kings 13:14 Now Elisha was suffering from the illness from which he died. Jehoash king of Israel went down to see him and wept over him. “My father! My father!” he cried. “The chariots and horsemen of Israel!”
2 Kings 20:3 “Remember, O Lord, how I have walked before you faithfully and with wholehearted devotion and have done what is good in your eyes.” And Hezekiah wept bitterly.
2 Kings 20:5 “Go back and tell Hezekiah, the leader of my people, ‘This is what the Lord, the God of your father David, says: I have heard your prayer and seen your tears; I will heal you. On the third day from now you will go up to the temple of the Lord.
2 Kings 22:19 Because your heart was responsive and you humbled yourself before the Lord when you heard what I have spoken against this place and its people, that they would become accursed and laid waste, and because you tore your robes and wept in my presence, I have heard you, declares the Lord.
2 Chronicles 34:27 Because your heart was responsive and you humbled yourself before God when you heard what he spoke against this place and its people, and because you humbled yourself before me and tore your robes and wept in my presence, I have heard you, declares the Lord.
Ezra 10:1 While Ezra was praying and confessing, weeping and throwing himself down before the house of God, a large crowd of Israelites – men, women and children – gathered around him. They too wept bitterly.
Nehemiah 1:4 When I heard these things, I sat down and wept. For some days I mourned and fasted and prayed before the God of heaven.
Esther 4:1 When Mordecai learned of all that had been done, he tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and ashes, and went out into the city, wailing loudly and bitterly.
Job 2:12 When they saw him from a distance, they could hardly recognize him; they began to weep aloud, and they tore their robes and sprinkled dust on their heads.
Job 16:16 My face is red with weeping, deep shadows ring my eyes;
Job 16:20 My intercessor is my friend as my eyes pour out tears to God;
Job 30:25 Have I not wept for those in trouble? Has not my soul grieved for the poor?
Psalms 6:6 I am worn out from groaning; all night long I flood my bed with weeping and drench my couch with tears.
Psalms 6:8 Away from me, all you who do evil, for the Lord has heard my weeping.
Psalms 30:11 You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy,
Psalms 39:12 “Hear my prayer, O Lord, listen to my cry for help; be not deaf to my weeping. For I dwell with you as an alien, a stranger, as all my fathers were.
Psalms 42:3 My tears have been my food day and night, while men say to me all day long, “Where is your God?”
Psalms 69:10 When I weep and fast, I must endure scorn;
Psalms 102:9 For I eat ashes as my food and mingle my drink with tears.
Psalms 119:136 Streams of tears flow from my eyes, for your law is not obeyed.
Isaiah 16:9 So I weep, as Jazer weeps, for the vines of Sibmah. O Heshbon, O Elealeh,I drench you with tears!The shouts of joy over your ripened fruit and over your harvests have been stilled.
Isaiah 22:4 Therefore I said, “Turn away from me; let me weep bitterly. Do not try to console me over the destruction of my people.”
Isaiah 33:7 Look, their brave men cry aloud in the streets; the envoys of peace weep bitterly.
Isaiah 38:3 “Remember, O Lord, how I have walked before you faithfully and with wholehearted devotion and have done what is good in your eyes.” And Hezekiah wept bitterly.
Isaiah 38:5 “Go and tell Hezekiah, ‘This is what the Lord, the God of your father David, says: I have heard your prayer and seen your tears; I will add fifteen years to your life.
Jeremiah 25:36 Hear the cry of the shepherds, the wailing of the leaders of the flock, for the Lord is destroying their pasture.
Jeremiah 41:6 Ishmael son of Nethaniah went out from Mizpah to meet them, weeping as he went. When he met them, he said, “Come to Gedaliah son of Ahikam.”
Jeremiah 48:31-32 Therefore I wail over Moab, for all Moab I cry out, I moan for the men of Kir Hareseth. I weep for you, as Jazer weeps . . .
Lamentations 2:11 My eyes fail from weeping, I am in torment within, my heart is poured out on the ground because my people are destroyed, because children and infants faint in the streets of the city.
Lamentations 3:48-49 Streams of tears flow from my eyes because my people are destroyed. My eyes will flow unceasingly, without relief
Hosea 12:4 He struggled with the angel and overcame him; he wept and begged for his favor. He found him at Bethel and talked with him there –
Micah 1:8 Because of this I will weep and wail; I will go about barefoot and naked. I will howl like a jackal and moan like an owl.
Zechariah 11:3 Listen to the wail of the shepherds; their rich pastures are destroyed! . . .
Malachi 2:13 Another thing you do: You flood the Lord’s altar with tears. You weep and wail because he no longer pays attention to your offerings or accepts them with pleasure from your hands.
Matthew 26:75 Then Peter remembered the word Jesus had spoken: “Before the rooster crows, you will disown me three times.” And he went outside and wept bitterly.
Mark 14:72 Immediately the rooster crowed the second time. Then Peter remembered the word Jesus had spoken to him: “Before the rooster crows twice you will disown me three times.” And he broke down and wept.
Luke 19:41 As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it.
Luke 22:62 And he went outside and wept bitterly.
John 11:35 Jesus wept.
Acts 20:19 I served the Lord with great humility and with tears, although I was severely tested by the plots of the Jews.
Acts 20:31 So be on your guard! Remember that for three years I never stopped warning each of you night and day with tears.
Acts 20:37 They all wept as they embraced him and kissed him.
Acts 21:13 Then Paul answered, “Why are you weeping and breaking my heart? I am ready not only to be bound, but also to die in Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus.”
2 Corinthians 2:4 For I wrote you out of great distress and anguish of heart and with many tears, not to grieve you but to let you know the depth of my love for you.
Philippians 3:18 For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ.
2 Timothy 1:4 Recalling your tears, I long to see you, so that I may be filled with joy.
Hebrews 5:7 During the days of Jesus’ life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with loud cries and tears to the one who could save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission.
Hebrews 12:17 Afterward, as you know, when he wanted to inherit this blessing, he was rejected. He could bring about no change of mind, though he sought the blessing with tears.
Revelation 5:4 I wept and wept because no one was found who was worthy to open the scroll or look inside.
Revelation 5:5 Then one of the elders said to me, “Do not weep! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed. He is able to open the scroll and its seven seals.”
In the Word of God men cried and wept.
Genesis 27:38 Esau said to his father, “Do you have only one blessing, my father? Bless me too, my father!” Then Esau wept aloud.
Genesis 29:11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel and began to weep aloud.
Genesis 33:4 But Esau ran to meet Jacob and embraced him; he threw his arms around his neck and kissed him. And they wept.
Genesis 37:35 All his sons and daughters came to comfort him, but he refused to be comforted. “No,” he said, “in mourning will I go down to the grave to my son.” So his father wept for him.
Genesis 42:24 He turned away from them and began to weep, but then turned back and spoke to them again. He had Simeon taken from them and bound before their eyes.
Genesis 43:30 Deeply moved at the sight of his brother, Joseph hurried out and looked for a place to weep. He went into his private room and wept there.
Genesis 45:2 And he wept so loudly that the Egyptians heard him, and Pharaoh’s household heard about it.
Genesis 45:14 Then he threw his arms around his brother Benjamin and wept, and Benjamin embraced him, weeping.
Genesis 45:15 And he kissed all his brothers and wept over them. Afterward his brothers talked with him.
Genesis 46:29 Joseph had his chariot made ready and went to Goshen to meet his father Israel. As soon as Joseph appeared before him, he threw his arms around his father and wept for a long time.
Genesis 50:1 Joseph threw himself upon his father and wept over him and kissed him.
Genesis 50:17 ‘This is what you are to say to Joseph: I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly.’ Now please forgive the sins of the servants of the God of your father.” When their message came to him, Joseph wept.
1 Samuel 20:41 After the boy had gone, David got up from the south side of the stone and bowed down before Jonathan three times, with his face to the ground. Then they kissed each other and wept together – but David wept the most.
1 Samuel 24:16 When David finished saying this, Saul asked, “Is that your voice, David my son?” And he wept aloud.
1 Samuel 30:4 So David and his men wept aloud until they had no strength left to weep.
2 Samuel 1:12 They mourned and wept and fasted till evening for Saul and his son Jonathan, and for the army of the Lord and the house of Israel, because they had fallen by the sword.
2 Samuel 3:16 Her husband, however, went with her, weeping behind her all the way to Bahurim. Then Abner said to him, “Go back home!” So he went back.
2 Samuel 3:32 They buried Abner in Hebron, and the king wept aloud at Abner’s tomb. All the people wept also.
2 Samuel 12:21 His servants asked him, “Why are you acting this way? While the child was alive, you fasted and wept, but now that the child is dead, you get up and eat!”
2 Samuel 12:22 He answered, “While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought, ‘Who knows? The Lord may be gracious to me and let the child live.’
2 Samuel 13:36 As he finished speaking, the king’s sons came in, wailing loudly. The king, too, and all his servants wept very bitterly.
2 Samuel 15:30 But David continued up the Mount of Olives, weeping as he went; his head was covered and he was barefoot. All the people with him covered their heads too and were weeping as they went up.
2 Samuel 18:33 The king was shaken. He went up to the room over the gateway and wept. As he went, he said: “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you – O Absalom, my son, my son!”
2 Samuel 19:1 Joab was told, “The king is weeping and mourning for Absalom.”
2 Kings 8:11 He stared at him with a fixed gaze until Hazael felt ashamed. Then the man of God began to weep.
2 Kings 8:12 “Why is my lord weeping?” asked Hazael. “Because I know the harm you will do to the Israelites,” he answered. “You will set fire to their fortified places, kill their young men with the sword, dash their little children to the ground, and rip open their pregnant women.”
2 Kings 13:14 Now Elisha was suffering from the illness from which he died. Jehoash king of Israel went down to see him and wept over him. “My father! My father!” he cried. “The chariots and horsemen of Israel!”
2 Kings 20:3 “Remember, O Lord, how I have walked before you faithfully and with wholehearted devotion and have done what is good in your eyes.” And Hezekiah wept bitterly.
2 Kings 20:5 “Go back and tell Hezekiah, the leader of my people, ‘This is what the Lord, the God of your father David, says: I have heard your prayer and seen your tears; I will heal you. On the third day from now you will go up to the temple of the Lord.
2 Kings 22:19 Because your heart was responsive and you humbled yourself before the Lord when you heard what I have spoken against this place and its people, that they would become accursed and laid waste, and because you tore your robes and wept in my presence, I have heard you, declares the Lord.
2 Chronicles 34:27 Because your heart was responsive and you humbled yourself before God when you heard what he spoke against this place and its people, and because you humbled yourself before me and tore your robes and wept in my presence, I have heard you, declares the Lord.
Ezra 10:1 While Ezra was praying and confessing, weeping and throwing himself down before the house of God, a large crowd of Israelites – men, women and children – gathered around him. They too wept bitterly.
Nehemiah 1:4 When I heard these things, I sat down and wept. For some days I mourned and fasted and prayed before the God of heaven.
Esther 4:1 When Mordecai learned of all that had been done, he tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and ashes, and went out into the city, wailing loudly and bitterly.
Job 2:12 When they saw him from a distance, they could hardly recognize him; they began to weep aloud, and they tore their robes and sprinkled dust on their heads.
Job 16:16 My face is red with weeping, deep shadows ring my eyes;
Job 16:20 My intercessor is my friend as my eyes pour out tears to God;
Job 30:25 Have I not wept for those in trouble? Has not my soul grieved for the poor?
Psalms 6:6 I am worn out from groaning; all night long I flood my bed with weeping and drench my couch with tears.
Psalms 6:8 Away from me, all you who do evil, for the Lord has heard my weeping.
Psalms 30:11 You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy,
Psalms 39:12 “Hear my prayer, O Lord, listen to my cry for help; be not deaf to my weeping. For I dwell with you as an alien, a stranger, as all my fathers were.
Psalms 42:3 My tears have been my food day and night, while men say to me all day long, “Where is your God?”
Psalms 69:10 When I weep and fast, I must endure scorn;
Psalms 102:9 For I eat ashes as my food and mingle my drink with tears.
Psalms 119:136 Streams of tears flow from my eyes, for your law is not obeyed.
Isaiah 16:9 So I weep, as Jazer weeps, for the vines of Sibmah. O Heshbon, O Elealeh,I drench you with tears!The shouts of joy over your ripened fruit and over your harvests have been stilled.
Isaiah 22:4 Therefore I said, “Turn away from me; let me weep bitterly. Do not try to console me over the destruction of my people.”
Isaiah 33:7 Look, their brave men cry aloud in the streets; the envoys of peace weep bitterly.
Isaiah 38:3 “Remember, O Lord, how I have walked before you faithfully and with wholehearted devotion and have done what is good in your eyes.” And Hezekiah wept bitterly.
Isaiah 38:5 “Go and tell Hezekiah, ‘This is what the Lord, the God of your father David, says: I have heard your prayer and seen your tears; I will add fifteen years to your life.
Jeremiah 25:36 Hear the cry of the shepherds, the wailing of the leaders of the flock, for the Lord is destroying their pasture.
Jeremiah 41:6 Ishmael son of Nethaniah went out from Mizpah to meet them, weeping as he went. When he met them, he said, “Come to Gedaliah son of Ahikam.”
Jeremiah 48:31-32 Therefore I wail over Moab, for all Moab I cry out, I moan for the men of Kir Hareseth. I weep for you, as Jazer weeps . . .
Lamentations 2:11 My eyes fail from weeping, I am in torment within, my heart is poured out on the ground because my people are destroyed, because children and infants faint in the streets of the city.
Lamentations 3:48-49 Streams of tears flow from my eyes because my people are destroyed. My eyes will flow unceasingly, without relief
Hosea 12:4 He struggled with the angel and overcame him; he wept and begged for his favor. He found him at Bethel and talked with him there –
Micah 1:8 Because of this I will weep and wail; I will go about barefoot and naked. I will howl like a jackal and moan like an owl.
Zechariah 11:3 Listen to the wail of the shepherds; their rich pastures are destroyed! . . .
Malachi 2:13 Another thing you do: You flood the Lord’s altar with tears. You weep and wail because he no longer pays attention to your offerings or accepts them with pleasure from your hands.
Matthew 26:75 Then Peter remembered the word Jesus had spoken: “Before the rooster crows, you will disown me three times.” And he went outside and wept bitterly.
Mark 14:72 Immediately the rooster crowed the second time. Then Peter remembered the word Jesus had spoken to him: “Before the rooster crows twice you will disown me three times.” And he broke down and wept.
Luke 19:41 As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it.
Luke 22:62 And he went outside and wept bitterly.
John 11:35 Jesus wept.
Acts 20:19 I served the Lord with great humility and with tears, although I was severely tested by the plots of the Jews.
Acts 20:31 So be on your guard! Remember that for three years I never stopped warning each of you night and day with tears.
Acts 20:37 They all wept as they embraced him and kissed him.
Acts 21:13 Then Paul answered, “Why are you weeping and breaking my heart? I am ready not only to be bound, but also to die in Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus.”
2 Corinthians 2:4 For I wrote you out of great distress and anguish of heart and with many tears, not to grieve you but to let you know the depth of my love for you.
Philippians 3:18 For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ.
2 Timothy 1:4 Recalling your tears, I long to see you, so that I may be filled with joy.
Hebrews 5:7 During the days of Jesus’ life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with loud cries and tears to the one who could save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission.
Hebrews 12:17 Afterward, as you know, when he wanted to inherit this blessing, he was rejected. He could bring about no change of mind, though he sought the blessing with tears.
Revelation 5:4 I wept and wept because no one was found who was worthy to open the scroll or look inside.
Revelation 5:5 Then one of the elders said to me, “Do not weep! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed. He is able to open the scroll and its seven seals.”
I was watching a touching video on FaceBook just a couple of days ago and my face leaked. It tends to leak more since my marriage ended; I think some dams were busted open in the wake. Mostly I just tear up if I read something which touches my heart. It happens often around here; I think my compassion and sensitivity are growing.
So yes, I'm a man, and sometimes I cry.
Arrrrghhh! I feel better now. I think I'll go and do something incredibly masculine, like eat chicken right off the bone. Or help a friend with his motorcycles. Or...
So yes, I'm a man, and sometimes I cry.
Arrrrghhh! I feel better now. I think I'll go and do something incredibly masculine, like eat chicken right off the bone. Or help a friend with his motorcycles. Or...
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The flip side of that is....Most of the time, if your a man. It's your responsibility to pull your pants up and take the lead in a bad situation, thats just how it is. If there is seriously something worth crying about by any standard, like the death of a loved one......you have to suck it up and hold it in so someone else in the family can cry on your shoulder. You have to be strong for them. If everyone else is falling to pieces you have to be the one who has a grip on things.
I say this from the perspective of being one of only a few males in an all female family. A lot of times Im the only male around.
I say this from the perspective of being one of only a few males in an all female family. A lot of times Im the only male around.
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I was watching a touching video on FaceBook just a couple of days ago and my face leaked. It tends to leak more since my marriage ended; I think some dams were busted open in the wake. Mostly I just tear up if I read something which touches my heart. It happens often around here; I think my compassion and sensitivity are growing.
So yes, I'm a man, and sometimes I cry.
Arrrrghhh! I feel better now. I think I'll go and do something incredibly masculine, like eat chicken right off the bone. Or help a friend with his motorcycles. Or...
So yes, I'm a man, and sometimes I cry.
Arrrrghhh! I feel better now. I think I'll go and do something incredibly masculine, like eat chicken right off the bone. Or help a friend with his motorcycles. Or...
I've been though so much over the years that my crying threshold is a lot lower than most guys' is. The thing is, my pain threshold is also a lot higher. I've been though a lot and even though I can be a doubting Thomas, when the going gets tough I'm always going to fall back and seek my Lord in whatever trial I may go through.
What I don't do is cry when things get tough and then sit on the sidelines. My body tells me to do that, but I pretty quickly sit down and start praying and then do what needs to be done.
Shedding a few tears isn't a hit on one's man card provided one doesn't wallow in grief. I don't know why the assumption is always made that crying means a man is weak.
