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Still a form of homosexuality. Still has an attraction to the opposite sex. And you can't indulge both without it becoming adulterous as well.
So dating both = cheating/adulterous/homosexual
Dating just women = homosexual sin referred to as an 'abomination' in the bible.
There are no shortcuts around sin, much as many of us might like there to be.
Hope that helps and welcome to CC
So dating both = cheating/adulterous/homosexual
Dating just women = homosexual sin referred to as an 'abomination' in the bible.
There are no shortcuts around sin, much as many of us might like there to be.
Hope that helps and welcome to CC
Sis, one's feelings and desires usually can't be controlled. However, one's behavior CAN.
I do strongly recommend asking Jesus in prayer to be freed from the attraction you have toward other females. However, the main thing you need to do is abstain from sexual contact with females and avoid dwelling on thoughts of the same as much as possible. Again, prayer is key, though I'm not going to pretend that our ungodly desires leave right after praying every time. *hugs* -Jill
Oh, and asking Jesus to fill you with the power of the Holy Spirit is incredibly helpful as well for avoiding sin.
I do strongly recommend asking Jesus in prayer to be freed from the attraction you have toward other females. However, the main thing you need to do is abstain from sexual contact with females and avoid dwelling on thoughts of the same as much as possible. Again, prayer is key, though I'm not going to pretend that our ungodly desires leave right after praying every time. *hugs* -Jill
Oh, and asking Jesus to fill you with the power of the Holy Spirit is incredibly helpful as well for avoiding sin
.I understand, although Jesus died on the cross not only so we could have our sins forgiven, but also so that we can be set free from ALL sin, including fornication. He wants you have a glorious life in Him where He's your best friend, which is so much more glorious and fun than just abstaining from all sex until married, which is also important for being in His will. Have you ever asked Jesus to be your Savior ?
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Hi Julia,
Do you have a conviction about bisexuality in your heart? Are you asking because you are really not sure if it is sin or not?
Let me say this, it's somewhat 'okay' to have these temptations/desires (though they themselves are unclean) but to act on them is another thing. For example, I get times where i'm tempted to look at pornography, sin within me, my flesh desires to look at it, but I know in my spirit that it is evil and not pleasing to God. Was it wrong for me to be tempted? No, I think not. Though I do hope one day it will cease and I never be tempted again but even if it never ceases, I am learning to LEAN ON GODS STRENGTH to overcome the temptation. For He knows that my past efforts on m own strength have failed miserably.
I hope that helps clears things up for you a bit.
Do you have a conviction about bisexuality in your heart? Are you asking because you are really not sure if it is sin or not?
Let me say this, it's somewhat 'okay' to have these temptations/desires (though they themselves are unclean) but to act on them is another thing. For example, I get times where i'm tempted to look at pornography, sin within me, my flesh desires to look at it, but I know in my spirit that it is evil and not pleasing to God. Was it wrong for me to be tempted? No, I think not. Though I do hope one day it will cease and I never be tempted again but even if it never ceases, I am learning to LEAN ON GODS STRENGTH to overcome the temptation. For He knows that my past efforts on m own strength have failed miserably.
I hope that helps clears things up for you a bit.
The Bible actually says to flee sexual immorality, so it covers a range of sins.
One of the reasons that I asked if you had asked Jesus to be your Savior is because until you've done that, it's nearly impossible to "be good". In fact, the Bible says that our righteousness is "as filthy rags", Julia. We have to get forgiveness from Jesus through His death on the cross; He paid the price for every sex act, murder, theft, gossipy words, EVERYTHING. But we have to agree to accept the forgiveness; He doesn't force it on us. After we come to Him this way, He'll help us get "cleaned up" and live in a way pleasing to Him, but we have to do things His way.
One of the reasons that I asked if you had asked Jesus to be your Savior is because until you've done that, it's nearly impossible to "be good". In fact, the Bible says that our righteousness is "as filthy rags", Julia. We have to get forgiveness from Jesus through His death on the cross; He paid the price for every sex act, murder, theft, gossipy words, EVERYTHING. But we have to agree to accept the forgiveness; He doesn't force it on us. After we come to Him this way, He'll help us get "cleaned up" and live in a way pleasing to Him, but we have to do things His way
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