Dark Soul

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atwhatcost

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#21
Hi ...I wish I could, he's just told me a few minutes ago that he's denouncing God and no more Church as he is a lost cause ...I've left a message for the Pastor to call me, but he's on holiday and said he will try and call in the evening, so far no call ...my fiancé has also started putting up Devlish pics on his facebook. All I can do is pray for him.
Well, he was told he was dark, so he bought it. Now is the time to denounce that, not get the pastor to further the cause. Had anyone said that about my hubby, I would have openly said what can't be said on this site.

Oh no you don't mess with THE hubby!
 
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P1LGR1M

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#22
If you're going to bail on him in his darkest moment, maybe he isn't.
We have no command to continue in relationships with those who denounce Christ, and not to bail would be foolish.

It sounds like she has tried to help this fellow and his actions are streadily getting worse.

To counsel a sister to continue in this relationship will find absolutely no Biblical support.


God bless.
 
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P1LGR1M

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#23
Well, he was told he was dark, so he bought it. Now is the time to denounce that, not get the pastor to further the cause. Had anyone said that about my hubby, I would have openly said what can't be said on this site.

Oh no you don't mess with THE hubby!
Why would you defend someone clearly apostate?


God bless.
 
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atwhatcost

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#24
We have no command to continue in relationships with those who denounce Christ, and not to bail would be foolish.

It sounds like she has tried to help this fellow and his actions are streadily getting worse.

To counsel a sister to continue in this relationship will find absolutely no Biblical support.


God bless.
We had no command to rebuke a "dark soul" either. The guy was told he was no good and then left to fend for himself. If I'm one of the people that dropped him, I do have a responsibility to go back and right my wrong.

And, really? We're supposed to dump spouses for disabilities now? There goes the other 50% of marriages.

The relationship may or may not be over, but that guy needs loving help ASAP. Joining the anti-Good-Samaritan bandwagon isn't good judgement, it isn't good counsel, and it's pretty lousy advice.

I really did mean maybe she should drop him. My reasoning is he doesn't deserve this little support. And the little support now isn't just hers anymore. The guy needs help, yet too many on here said to drop him.
 
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atwhatcost

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#25
Why would you defend someone clearly apostate?


God bless.
Because I know adults who were physically, sexually, emotionally and psychologically abused as children, who started out as the cruelest, meanest, scariest young adults you can't even imagine and yet, God regenerated them. Now they are the kindest, most loving, God-centered people I know.

Why do you believe only the good need Christ?
 
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P1LGR1M

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#26
We had no command to rebuke a "dark soul" either. The guy was told he was no good and then left to fend for himself. If I'm one of the people that dropped him, I do have a responsibility to go back and right my wrong.

And, really? We're supposed to dump spouses for disabilities now? There goes the other 50% of marriages.

The relationship may or may not be over, but that guy needs loving help ASAP. Joining the anti-Good-Samaritan bandwagon isn't good judgement, it isn't good counsel, and it's pretty lousy advice.

I really did mean maybe she should drop him. My reasoning is he doesn't deserve this little support. And the little support now isn't just hers anymore. The guy needs help, yet too many on here said to drop him.
They're not married.

It is apparent this fellow is not a believer so lpusy advice would be for a sister too try to convert such a person. We have no Biblical support for romantic Evangelism, but we do know it is not God's will to be unequally yoked.

I view even inter-demnominational marrraghe to be a bàd idea.


God bless.
 
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P1LGR1M

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#27
Because I know adults who were physically, sexually, emotionally and psychologically abused as children, who started out as the cruelest, meanest, scariest young adults you can't even imagine and yet, God regenerated them. Now they are the kindest, most loving, God-centered people I know.

Why do you believe only the good need Christ?
Everyone needs Christ, and nothing I said lacks concern for this fellow, but, the greater concern is for a sister who needs to step away from a relationship that could end up in a nightmare marriage. Her stepping away is probably the best thing she could do for him.

It seems that he is trying to convert him.


God bless.