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Are you sure she has not cheated? It seems like that is on her mind, unfortunately. Dang, the only thing I can tell you is to pray about it. I'm so sorry, brother!
Also, what was her point in telling you that? So she doesn't find you attractive...was there a reason for her to tell you? Does she want you to change or what?
I mean if I was married but wasn't physically attracted to my husband, I don't think I would tell him that. It's rude. I think if someone really loves someone, they would be willing to accept them no matter what. This could be if the person is fat, ugly, too skinny, full of acne, bald, short, hairy back, scarred...whatever. Love is pretty much blind.
I'm not saying that looks don't matter in a relationship, sure they do, but it shouldn't come first. Jesus should and I don't think your wife knows very much about Him. Again, I'm sorry.
Also, what was her point in telling you that? So she doesn't find you attractive...was there a reason for her to tell you? Does she want you to change or what?
I mean if I was married but wasn't physically attracted to my husband, I don't think I would tell him that. It's rude. I think if someone really loves someone, they would be willing to accept them no matter what. This could be if the person is fat, ugly, too skinny, full of acne, bald, short, hairy back, scarred...whatever. Love is pretty much blind.
I'm not saying that looks don't matter in a relationship, sure they do, but it shouldn't come first. Jesus should and I don't think your wife knows very much about Him. Again, I'm sorry.
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Are you sure she has not cheated? It seems like that is on her mind, unfortunately. Dang, the only thing I can tell you is to pray about it. I'm so sorry, brother!
Also, what was her point in telling you that? So she doesn't find you attractive...was there a reason for her to tell you? Does she want you to change or what?
I mean if I was married but wasn't physically attracted to my husband, I don't think I would tell him that. It's rude. I think if someone really loves someone, they would be willing to accept them no matter what. This could be if the person is fat, ugly, too skinny, full of acne, bald, short, hairy back, scarred...whatever. Love is pretty much blind.
I'm not saying that looks don't matter in a relationship, sure they do, but it shouldn't come first. Jesus should and I don't think your wife knows very much about Him. Again, I'm sorry.
Also, what was her point in telling you that? So she doesn't find you attractive...was there a reason for her to tell you? Does she want you to change or what?
I mean if I was married but wasn't physically attracted to my husband, I don't think I would tell him that. It's rude. I think if someone really loves someone, they would be willing to accept them no matter what. This could be if the person is fat, ugly, too skinny, full of acne, bald, short, hairy back, scarred...whatever. Love is pretty much blind.
I'm not saying that looks don't matter in a relationship, sure they do, but it shouldn't come first. Jesus should and I don't think your wife knows very much about Him. Again, I'm sorry.
From a Biblical view her lust for another man constitutes adultery.
God bless.
She sounds very shallow to me, if what you say is true. Marriage is about a relationship. And that will last long after the attractiveness has gone. Some old couples actually die of a broken heart when their spouse dies. My great aunt and great uncle had that happen.
They were not Christians, but they were best friends and faithful to death. Even a non-Christian can live the way God wants us to in a marriage.
Are there specific things she does not like about your appearance? Or is she just using it as an excuse? She sounds like she is all about thrills and chills, instead of building a life and a marriage together.
I will pray for you. And I would tell you to pray for her, and to draw closer to God through reading the Bible and prayer. And I am sorry you are hurting so badly. It must be horrible for the love of your life to tell you she doesn't love you any more. There are so many women who would love to have a man who treats them right. I'm sorry your wife does not seem to be one of them.
They were not Christians, but they were best friends and faithful to death. Even a non-Christian can live the way God wants us to in a marriage.
Are there specific things she does not like about your appearance? Or is she just using it as an excuse? She sounds like she is all about thrills and chills, instead of building a life and a marriage together.
I will pray for you. And I would tell you to pray for her, and to draw closer to God through reading the Bible and prayer. And I am sorry you are hurting so badly. It must be horrible for the love of your life to tell you she doesn't love you any more. There are so many women who would love to have a man who treats them right. I'm sorry your wife does not seem to be one of them.