In such a difficult situation --- I really don't know what to do

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ManiaStar

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People are telling me these things happen for a reason and all you need to is faith, If both of you are meant for each other, take the situation as a challenge. Don't be too hard with yourself. Things will fall into places accordingly.

I believe that phrase, I do because God has told me and another person who got spoken to by God has confirmed it too but, I can't deal w/ the emotional pain of it anymore. It's just way too much to deal with.

I see what's going on before me and maybe the timing isn't there but, its so difficult. Its affecting me inwardly, emotionally, tearing at me.

I haven't said a word to this guy yet because I'm afraid of putting him in the middle and I'm afraid of possibly losing his friendship but, I don't understand. I just don't get it.
 
I assume you´re talking about a separation or a situation in which you´re far from for the person you love. All I have to say, sister, is to let things unfold, trust the Lord and honor/serve Him. Things will be clear in the future, whatever they might be.

Praying for you.

May the Lord bless you both!
 
ManiaStar said:
People are telling me these things happen for a reason and all you need to is faith, If both of you are meant for each other, take the situation as a challenge. Don't be too hard with yourself. Things will fall into places accordingly.

I believe that phrase, I do because God has told me and another person who got spoken to by God has confirmed it too but, I can't deal w/ the emotional pain of it anymore. It's just way too much to deal with.

I see what's going on before me and maybe the timing isn't there but, its so difficult. Its affecting me inwardly, emotionally, tearing at me.

I haven't said a word to this guy yet because I'm afraid of putting him in the middle and I'm afraid of possibly losing his friendship but, I don't understand. I just don't get it.
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It is easier for us to give God the issue of a thing, than it is to give up our own struggles we experience in the battles we face of the thing we surrendered. We tend to think we have to get right before God to get answers from God, and we get frustrated when alas we realize this isn't happening correctly,. But we don't, in fact we can't..

God wants us to simply come as we are, honestly unable, in your case, to handle the emotional pain anymore, and say it just like that to Him, and then lay it at His feet first and completely before trying anything.. Let Him work from inside your soul thru His spirit to pick you up and give strength to your weary soul thru body, and mind. Being weak is not a sin.

Then, let go of the thing. Wait upon the Lord to guide you in every step, thru His Word and thru communication with Him continuously until you have had your faith in Him stir His heart to action. He promises action! Real action!! In the thing, amazingly enough, but also, even more amazingly in you first...in the emotional erroneous zones you are being tossed to and fro by. And as your human reasoning of fear to lose him turns to peace knowing God is all about it you will end up doing all you can to make the right decisions, and God will back you up, going before you clearing a path.

I'm going to pray you have this confident peace,surrender it wholly to God. It isn't about puffing yourself up enough to get thru it in Christ. It is about building yourself up {and your partner up} enough thru Christ to have a change that lasts. That only happens when we remain in Him, and His Word remains in us. God bless you with this; I pray I was of encouragement, I will keep you in prayer and let us know how it is going....Ok?!!
 
Lord give your knowledge and wisdom to maniastar. Let her understand your will and act accordingly. Please bless in this matter. In Jesus name, Amen!
 
I understand what you're going through. I feel like I'm going through something similar. I will pray for you.
 
i pray you find wise spiritual counsel in your situation. i pray wisdom. i pray God guilds you.
 
I am suffering ... Yet I am not ashamed, because I know whom I have believed, and am convinced that he is able to guard what I have entrusted to him for that day.
 
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