Looking for a traditional girl..

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CarolSampaio

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Maybe a girl that is not moved by political type mindsets ... I could never get along with a girl that followed after the PC non-sense we have now in our society. One that held traditional biblical ideas of morality etc...
Hmmm... so a girl who's not into high tech stuff and who's a christian.... that shouldn't be that hard to find... a christian girl not into high tech stuff is actually pretty easy to find... :D
 
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Mitspa

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Like.... a traditional girl is a girl who's into girl things... who likes jewelry and hand bags and shoes as gifts! Who enjoys wearing dresses and a fancy restaurant and wine... a girl who likes to watch romantic comedies in the movies and loves to dance and stuff like that... Who is sweet and feminine and yada yada yada...
No it more about inward stuff for me... im not particularly into materialistic type folks. I like people who don't wear mask and takes that sincerity into their faith. I like beauty like the next guy, but it has to be real inside as well.

I like the idea that a girl would know that God is God...we don't change Him, He changes us. That's important to me and represents a traditional mindset to me.
 
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Mitspa

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Hmmm... so a girl who's not into high tech stuff and who's a christian.... that shouldn't be that hard to find... a christian girl not into high tech stuff is actually pretty easy to find... :D
How did you get "high tech" from political?
 
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CarolSampaio

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How did you get "high tech" from political?
From "pc non sense"... hehehehehe I don't really know many girls (me included) who are into political mambo jumbo... so I just skiped to the rest... sorry if I got it wrong...

But now I got you!! :)

A real truthful christian girl!! :) Also not that hard...

I was talking about it with some friends at church about this very topic...

In church there are much more girls than guys... so it is a lot easier for you guys to find a good christian girl who's into you... I told them that all they needed to do was open their eyes... to us girls it gets a lot more complicated...

But it's the way things are... I shouldn't complain... :)
 

Lynx

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I think she translated "PC" as "Personal Computer." ;)
 
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Mitspa

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From "pc non sense"... hehehehehe I don't really know many girls (me included) who are into political mambo jumbo... so I just skiped to the rest... sorry if I got it wrong...

But now I got you!! :)

A real truthful christian girl!! :) Also not that hard...

I was talking about it with some friends at church about this very topic...

In church there are much more girls than guys... so it is a lot easier for you guys to find a good christian girl who's into you... I told them that all they needed to do was open their eyes... to us girls it gets a lot more complicated...

But it's the way things are... I shouldn't complain... :)
You know its funny ..im not really into "church" girls? Because a lot of the girls here who have been "churched" their whole lives, have a strong desire to make "appearances" ...its like they seem to draw so much from the opinion of others in their social groups that its a bit annoying. To me real faith don't really consider anything but what God would want for a person... Im complicated :p
 
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Mitspa

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From "pc non sense"... hehehehehe I don't really know many girls (me included) who are into political mambo jumbo... so I just skiped to the rest... sorry if I got it wrong...

But now I got you!! :)

A real truthful christian girl!! :) Also not that hard...

I was talking about it with some friends at church about this very topic...

In church there are much more girls than guys... so it is a lot easier for you guys to find a good christian girl who's into you... I told them that all they needed to do was open their eyes... to us girls it gets a lot more complicated...

But it's the way things are... I shouldn't complain... :)
PC... is political correctness ;)
 
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CarolSampaio

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You know its funny ..im not really into "church" girls? Because a lot of the girls here who have been "churched" their whole lives, have a strong desire to make "appearances" ...its like they seem to draw so much from the opinion of others in their social groups that its a bit annoying. To me real faith don't really consider anything but what God would want for a person... Im complicated :p
Aren't we all? And isn't it wonderful? :)
 
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Mitspa

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Last "church" girl I dated ...her whole world revolved around "moma and them" She came from a very large and powerful church in our community. The idea that God would lead our lives without first going through that church and her mom, was just a foreign thought to her. I mean where we would live and the jobs we would take was all mixed up in her mind with what the people at that church would think. I bet I told her a thousand times "moma and them" wont be there when we answer to God for our lives.
 

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I know that this thread was about Mitspa's preference for a traditional girl. But, I prefer a traditional girl too so I thought I should share the three important reasons why I do so -

1. Traditional girls know that they have to obey their husbands in everything. The Bible clearly tells us that husbands are the head of the wives, just as Christ is the head of the Church. What St. Paul was trying to say is that by accepting her husband to be her head, a woman is denouncing her capability to think and to make decisions for herself. Here is an article written by prominent writer Dunce Gabbana titled "Why women should not think". I think she has explained her views beautifully in her article, and rewording it would only make it ineffective.

2. Traditional girls know their role in the family. The Bible never mentions about women who were the sole bread-winners for their household. Women's role, according to the Bible, is limited to certain aspects. Again, I will point out another series of articles written by Tommy Elgifer, titled "Role of a wife in a Christian family".

3. Lastly, traditional girls embody the virtues that are so beautiful written in Proverbs 31. I have covered this extensively in my blog, here - "The quintessential Christian girl".

So, there you have it. This is just my opinion, but I am willing to explain and debate this with any of my brethren here. :)

I'm sorry, but if you have reached this line, then you have wasted the last 5 minutes of your life. This is a 100% troll post. You see, I was waiting for someone to finish their work and it was nearing my bed-time. So, I thought to myself, 'What better way to kill some time other than by trolling my friends on CC Singles?' After all, with Jack having been banned, there have not been any troll posts lately. It is only fair that I, being The Undisputed Best Troll on CC, should come up with an ingenious method of trolling you all. So, there you have it folks, this is a troll post.

My apologies for wasting your time. But, if you wish to exact revenge, you should send some stinkers to the person who made me wait. Any reference to characters, links, articles or writers, either fictional or real, is purely coincidental. Furthermore, t
his thread DOES NOT REPRESENT MY VIEWS ON WOMEN, in any manner whatsoever. Please do not be offended by this post.

I love you all! You all are awesome! <3 :)
 
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AnneNoel

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It didn't scream "modern woman" just because I had a tank top on. It was a shirt. Plain & simple.
 
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Couldn't help but laugh at this. How traditional could you want while taking your carefully aimed selfie making sure to get a hefty dose of cleavage? Doesn't strike me as something a traditional man might go for.
You're way out of line with that post. There's nothing provocative about her picture.
 
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Ugly is one of our resident bullies...but maybe best if you did change the photo :) Folks assume things around here before they get to know folks :)
I know you're looking out for her, my Brother, but there's nothing to assume with her picture.
 
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Ugly

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You're way out of line with that post. There's nothing provocative about her picture.
Because this all took place yesterday and she has since changed her pic.
 
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I didn't insult her, judge her, question her integrity.
You couldn't have possibly said a more incorrect statement than that. With that, I'm done.
 
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Because this all took place yesterday and she has since changed her pic.
I saw her picture yesterday and didn't notice anything but her smile. Like I said, I'm done with it.
 
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Because this all took place yesterday and she has since changed her pic.
I agree a woman should not show cleavage because it is not modest. I do think that a pm would have been the best option instead of calling her out in public.

Matthew 15:18
15"If your brother sins, go and show him his fault in private; if he listens to you, you have won your brother. 16"But if he does not listen to you, take one or two more with you, so that BY THE MOUTH OF TWO OR THREE WITNESSES EVERY FACT MAY BE CONFIRMED.…
Galatians 6:1
Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted.




Colossians 3:12
Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.


Its best to adhere to scripture.
 

blue_ladybug

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Originally Posted by Ugly

Couldn't help but laugh at this. How traditional could you want while taking your carefully aimed selfie making sure to get a hefty dose of cleavage? Doesn't strike me as something a traditional man might go for.

Originally Posted by Ugly

I didn't insult her, judge her, question her integrity.


You didn't judge her? Umm, here you basically say she WANTED to show alot of cleavage. Then you insulted her by saying a traditional man wouldn't go for that. She took a selfie, so what? I've seen alot more risque selfies of people on here, than hers was. Like Utah said, all I noticed was her face and smile. YOU however, were OBVIOUSLY looking elsewhere. :/ If you felt her avatar was inappropriate, you could have pm'ed her instead of making a stupid, embarassing comment on the public board..
 
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I know that this thread was about Mitspa's preference for a traditional girl. But, I prefer a traditional girl too so I thought I should share the three important reasons why I do so -

1. Traditional girls know that they have to obey their husbands in everything. The Bible clearly tells us that husbands are the head of the wives, just as Christ is the head of the Church. What St. Paul was trying to say is that by accepting her husband to be her head, a woman is denouncing her capability to think and to make decisions for herself. Here is an article written by prominent writer Dunce Gabbana titled "Why women should not think". I think she has explained her views beautifully in her article, and rewording it would only make it ineffective.

2. Traditional girls know their role in the family. The Bible never mentions about women who were the sole bread-winners for their household. Women's role, according to the Bible, is limited to certain aspects. Again, I will point out another series of articles written by Tommy Elgifer, titled "Role of a wife in a Christian family".

3. Lastly, traditional girls embody the virtues that are so beautiful written in Proverbs 31. I have covered this extensively in my blog, here - "The quintessential Christian girl".

So, there you have it. This is just my opinion, but I am willing to explain and debate this with any of my brethren here. :)

I'm sorry, but if you have reached this line, then you have wasted the last 5 minutes of your life. This is a 100% troll post. You see, I was waiting for someone to finish their work and it was nearing my bed-time. So, I thought to myself, 'What better way to kill some time other than by trolling my friends on CC Singles?' After all, with Jack having been banned, there have not been any troll posts lately. It is only fair that I, being The Undisputed Best Troll on CC, should come up with an ingenious method of trolling you all. So, there you have it folks, this is a troll post.

My apologies for wasting your time. But, if you wish to exact revenge, you should send some stinkers to the person who made me wait. Any reference to characters, links, articles or writers, either fictional or real, is purely coincidental. Furthermore, t
his thread DOES NOT REPRESENT MY VIEWS ON WOMEN, in any manner whatsoever. Please do not be offended by this post.

I love you all! You all are awesome! <3 :)
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