I've never spoken in "tongues" as is commonly referenced. I've known some who have. It does come with some qualifiers as to whether its authentic or now, which I think many people ignore. Is it for today? Probably. Is it a gift that should be specifically desired above others? No.
However, the main problem i see I this. In some churches that believe in the gifts of the spirit fir today some who do not speak in tongues feel they are not truly part of the church. They feel( rightly or wrongly) they are viewed by others as lacking spirituality.
That is an awful thing for people to feel