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the norm is that humans marry and increase and multiply but Jesus did not and neither did His very own mother - any sensible or reasonable comments - wincam
 

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Is this yet another thread about the perpetual virginity of Mary?
 
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Is this yet another thread about the perpetual virginity of Mary?
Oi vey. And yet, Winny has issues with biblical creation. Priorities.
 
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the norm is that humans marry and increase and multiply but Jesus did not and neither did His very own mother - any sensible or reasonable comments - wincam
Perhaps we should start with a sensible or reasonable OP.
 

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It is evident you know nothing about Jesus or His purpose here. When Jesus judges this world at judgement only those that accept Christ will be allowed into eternity, the rest, well, their soul is extinguished and no remembrance of them will exist.

as you grow, I pray you will find there is more to life than procreating
 
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Um, Winny. Mary did marry. She married Joseph. Following Jesus, they had other sons and daughters. The Bible makes this plain. Mary wasn't perpetually a virgin. She's not evil for having sex within the confines of marriage. She was blessed by God above all other women, but she was still just a human. A saint/sinner like every other follower of Jesus.
 
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[h=2]Did Mary have any children other than Jesus? If so, how can she be the eternal virgin?[/h] Mary had four other sons, Joseph, James, Jude, and Simon. Because of the virgin birth, Joseph was not the father of Jesus so these were the half brothers of Jesus. The last three mentioned are not to be confused with those who were disciples of Jesus by the same name. Here are some passages where the other sons of Mary by Joseph are mentioned (Matt. 12:46; 13:55; Mark 6:3; John 2:12; 7:3, 5, 10; Acts 1:14; 1 Cor. 9:5; Gal. 1:19).
The Catholic doctrine of the eternal virginity of Mary is not supported by the Scripture. They claim these others were sons of Joseph by a former wife, but there is no biblical foundation for this nor for the perpetual virginity of Mary. The Bible only teaches us that Joseph kept her a virgin until after the birth of Jesus (see Matt. 1:18-25 below).
1:18 Now the birth of Jesus Christ happened this way. While his mother Mary was engaged to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit. 1:19 Because Joseph, her husband to be, was a righteous man, and because he did not want to disgrace her, he intended to divorce her privately. 1:20 When he had contemplated about this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, because the child conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. 1:21 She will give birth to a son and you will name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” 1:22 This all happened so that what was spoken by the Lord through the prophet would be fulfilled: 1:23Look! The virgin will conceive and bear a son, and they will call him Emmanuel,” which means “God with us.” 1:24 When Joseph awoke from sleep he did what the angel of the Lord told him. He took his wife, 1:25 but did not have marital relations with her until she gave birth to a son, whom he called Jesus. (note the words in verse 25 which I have put in bold italics to point you to the answer to part of your questions. The other words in bold italics are because they are a quote from Isa. 7:14).
 
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One of the more controversial teachings of the Catholic church deals with the perpetual virginity of Mary. This doctrine maintains that Mary remained a virgin after the birth of Jesus and that Biblical references suggesting Jesus had siblings are really references to cousins (Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 510).As the veneration of Mary increased throughout the centuries, the vehicle of Sacred Tradition became the means of promoting new doctrines not explicitly taught in the Bible. The virginity of Mary is clearly taught in Scripture when describing the birth of Jesus. But is the doctrine of her continued virginity supported by the Bible? Did Mary lose her virginity after Jesus was born? Does the Bible reveal that Mary had other children--that Jesus had brothers and sisters?
The Bible does not come out and declare that Mary remained a virgin and that she had no children. In fact, the Bible seems to state otherwise: (All quotes are from the NASB).


  • Matthew 1:24-25, "And Joseph arose from his sleep, and did as the angel of the Lord commanded him, and took as his wife, and kept her a virgin until she gave birth to a Son; and he called His name Jesus."
  • Matthew 12:46-47, "While He was still speaking to the multitudes, behold, His mother and brothers were standing outside, seeking to speak to Him. And someone said to Him, "Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside seeking to speak to You."
  • Matthew 13:55, "Is not this the carpenter's son? Is not His mother called Mary, and His brothers, James and Joseph and Simon and Judas?"
  • Mark 6:2-3, "And when the Sabbath had come, He began to teach in the synagogue; and the many listeners were astonished, saying, "Where did this man get these things, and what is this wisdom given to Him, and such miracles as these performed by His hands? "Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary, and brother of James, and Joses, and Judas, and Simon? Are not His sisters here with us?"
  • John 2:12, "After this He went down to Capernaum, He and His mother, and His brothers, and His disciples; and there they stayed a few days."
  • Acts 1:14, "These all with one mind were continually devoting themselves to prayer, along with the women, and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with His brothers."
  • 1 Cor. 9:4-5, "Do we not have a right to eat and drink? Do we not have a right to take along a believing wife, even as the rest of the apostles, and the brothers of the Lord, and Cephas?"
  • Gal. 1:19, "But I did not see any other of the apostles except James, the Lord's brother.
 
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An initial reading of these Biblical texts seems to clear up the issue: Jesus had brothers and sisters. But such obvious Scriptures are not without their response from Catholic Theologians. The primary argument against these Biblical texts is as follows:
In Greek, the word for brother is adelphos and sister is adelphe. This word is used in different contexts: of children of the same parents (Matt. 1:2, 14:3), descendants of parents (Acts 7:23, 26; Heb. 7:5), the Jews as a whole (Acts 3:17, 22), etc. Therefore, the term brother (and sister) can and does refer to the cousins of Jesus.
There is certainly merit in this argument, however, different contexts give different meanings to words. It is not legitimate to say that because a word has a wide scope of meaning, that you may then transfer any part of that range of meaning to any other text that uses the word. In other words, just because the word brother means fellow Jews or cousin in one place, does not mean it has the same meaning in another. Therefore, each verse should be looked at in context to see what it means.

Lets briefly analyze a couple of verses dealing with the brothers of Jesus.

  • Matthew 12:46-47, "While He was still speaking to the multitudes, behold, His mother and brothers were standing outside, seeking to speak to Him. And someone said to Him, "Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside seeking to speak to You."
  • Matthew 13:55, "Is not this the carpenter's son? Is not His mother called Mary, and His brothers, James and Joseph and Simon and Judas?"
In both of these verses, if the brothers of Jesus are not brothers but His cousins, then who is His mother, and who is the carpenter's father? In other words, mother here refers to Mary. The carpenter in Matt. 13:55 refers to Joseph. These are literal. Yet, the Catholic theologian will then stop there and say, "Though carpenter's son refers to Joseph and mother refers to Mary, brothers does not mean brothers but "cousins." This does not seem to be a legitimate assertion. You cannot simply switch contextual meanings in the middle of a sentence unless it is obviously required. The context is clear. This verse is speaking of Joseph, Mary, and Jesus' brothers. The whole context is of familial relationship: father, mother, and brothers.
 

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Um, Winny. Mary did marry. She married Joseph. Following Jesus, they had other sons and daughters. The Bible makes this plain. Mary wasn't perpetually a virgin. She's not evil for having sex within the confines of marriage. She was blessed by God above all other women, but she was still just a human. A saint/sinner like every other follower of Jesus.
Exactly. Mary would not have sinned by violating God's command to not deny your spouse sexual relations.

And then there's that pesky "until" word.....

"And (Joseph) knew her not until she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name JESUS." (Matthew 1:25)
 
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[h=2]Psalm 69, A Messianic Psalm[/h]There are many arguments pro and con concerning Jesus siblings. But the issue cannot be settled without examining Psalm 69, a Messianic Psalm. Jesus quotes Psalm 69:4 in John 15:25, "But they have done this in order that the word may be fulfilled that is written in their Law, they hated Me without a cause."
He also quotes Psalm 69:9 in John 2:16-17, "and to those who were selling the doves He said, "Take these things away; stop making My Fathers house a house of merchandise." His disciples remembered that it was written, "Zeal for Thy house will consume me."
Clearly, Psalm 69 is a Messianic Psalm since Jesus quoted it in reference to Himself two times. The reason this is important is that what is written between the verses that Jesus quoted.

To get the whole context, here is Psalm 69:4-9, "Those who hate me without a cause are more than the hairs of my head; Those who would destroy me are powerful, being wrongfully my enemies, What I did not steal, I then have to restore. [SUP]5[/SUP]O God, it is Thou who dost know my folly, And my wrongs are not hidden from Thee. [SUP]6[/SUP]May those who wait for Thee not be ashamed through me, O Lord God of hosts; May those who seek Thee not be dishonored through me, O God of Israel, [SUP]7[/SUP]Because for Thy sake I have borne reproach; Dishonor has covered my face. [SUP]8[/SUP]I have become estranged from my brothers, and an alien to my mothers sons. [SUP]9[/SUP]For zeal for Thy house has consumed me, And the reproaches of those who reproach Thee have fallen on me."
This messianic Psalm clearly shows that Jesus has brothers. As Amos 3:7 says, "Surely the Lord God does nothing unless He reveals His secret counsel to His servants the prophets." God's will has been revealed plainly in the New Testament and prophetically in the Old. Psalm 69 shows us that Jesus had brothers.
Did Mary have other children? The Bible seems to suggest a yes. Catholic Tradition says a no. Which will you trust?
Of course, the Catholic will simply state that even this phrase "my mother's sons" is in reference not to his siblings but to cousins and other relatives. This is a necessary thing for the Catholic to say, otherwise, the perpetual virginity of Mary is threatened. And since that contradicts Roman Catholic tradition, an interpretation that is consistent with that tradition must be adopted.
The question is, "Was Jesus estranged by His brothers?" Yes, He was. John 7:5 says "For not even His brothers were believing in Him." Furthermore, Psalm 69:8 says both "my brothers" and "my mother's sons." Are these both to be understood as not referring to His siblings? Hardly. The Catholics are fond of saying that "brothers" must mean "cousins." But, if that is the case, then when we read "an alien to my mother's sons," we can see that the writer is adding a further distinction and narrowing the scope of meaning. In other words, Jesus was alienated by His siblings, His very half-brothers begotten from Mary.
It is sad to see the Roman Catholic church go to such lengths to maintain Mary's virginity--something that is a violation of Biblical law to be married and fill the earth.
 
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Um, Winny. Mary did marry. She married Joseph. Following Jesus, they had other sons and daughters. The Bible makes this plain. Mary wasn't perpetually a virgin. She's not evil for having sex within the confines of marriage. She was blessed by God above all other women, but she was still just a human. A saint/sinner like every other follower of Jesus.

exactly what the problem is is that Mary was not a normal human nor was Jesus no matter who accepts or says otherwise - wincam
 
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Psalm 69, A Messianic Psalm

There are many arguments pro and con concerning Jesus siblings. But the issue cannot be settled without examining Psalm 69, a Messianic Psalm. Jesus quotes Psalm 69:4 in John 15:25, "But they have done this in order that the word may be fulfilled that is written in their Law, they hated Me without a cause."
He also quotes Psalm 69:9 in John 2:16-17, "and to those who were selling the doves He said, "Take these things away; stop making My Fathers house a house of merchandise." His disciples remembered that it was written, "Zeal for Thy house will consume me."
Clearly, Psalm 69 is a Messianic Psalm since Jesus quoted it in reference to Himself two times. The reason this is important is that what is written between the verses that Jesus quoted.

To get the whole context, here is Psalm 69:4-9, "Those who hate me without a cause are more than the hairs of my head; Those who would destroy me are powerful, being wrongfully my enemies, What I did not steal, I then have to restore. [SUP]5[/SUP]O God, it is Thou who dost know my folly, And my wrongs are not hidden from Thee. [SUP]6[/SUP]May those who wait for Thee not be ashamed through me, O Lord God of hosts; May those who seek Thee not be dishonored through me, O God of Israel, [SUP]7[/SUP]Because for Thy sake I have borne reproach; Dishonor has covered my face. [SUP]8[/SUP]I have become estranged from my brothers, and an alien to my mothers sons. [SUP]9[/SUP]For zeal for Thy house has consumed me, And the reproaches of those who reproach Thee have fallen on me."
This messianic Psalm clearly shows that Jesus has brothers. As Amos 3:7 says, "Surely the Lord God does nothing unless He reveals His secret counsel to His servants the prophets." God's will has been revealed plainly in the New Testament and prophetically in the Old. Psalm 69 shows us that Jesus had brothers.
Did Mary have other children? The Bible seems to suggest a yes. Catholic Tradition says a no. Which will you trust?
Of course, the Catholic will simply state that even this phrase "my mother's sons" is in reference not to his siblings but to cousins and other relatives. This is a necessary thing for the Catholic to say, otherwise, the perpetual virginity of Mary is threatened. And since that contradicts Roman Catholic tradition, an interpretation that is consistent with that tradition must be adopted.
The question is, "Was Jesus estranged by His brothers?" Yes, He was. John 7:5 says "For not even His brothers were believing in Him." Furthermore, Psalm 69:8 says both "my brothers" and "my mother's sons." Are these both to be understood as not referring to His siblings? Hardly. The Catholics are fond of saying that "brothers" must mean "cousins." But, if that is the case, then when we read "an alien to my mother's sons," we can see that the writer is adding a further distinction and narrowing the scope of meaning. In other words, Jesus was alienated by His siblings, His very half-brothers begotten from Mary.
It is sad to see the Roman Catholic church go to such lengths to maintain Mary's virginity--something that is a violation of Biblical law to be married and fill the earth.

a violation by Jesus = disparage Mary and you disparage Jesus = all have sinned and none righteous etc - step brothers were Joseph's sons not Mary's - Joseph was referred to as Father[Lk.2:48] but was in fact step father - wincam
 
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a violation by Jesus = disparage Mary and you disparage Jesus = all have sinned and none righteous etc - step brothers were Joseph's sons not Mary's - Joseph was referred to as Father[Lk.2:48] but was in fact step father - wincam
btw it should be obvious but is not it seems to some one can only guess why that Jesus did not and could not say my Father's sons - wincam
 
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exactly what the problem is is that Mary was not a normal human nor was Jesus no matter who accepts or says otherwise - wincam
Being a virgin is normal. Having a baby is normal. Having spousal relations is normal. What isn't normal is to be married and not have spousal relations.
 

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Being a virgin is normal. Having a baby is normal. Having spousal relations is normal. What isn't normal is to be married and not have spousal relations.
I guess that I haven't been normal in a long time. :)
 
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I guess that I haven't been normal in a long time. :)
only reverence decides that we conclude that Jesus was a perpetual virgin as would also be the case with Mary - married or single or what's wrong wirh sex is not really the issue here - wincam
 
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only reverence decides that we conclude that Jesus was a perpetual virgin as would also be the case with Mary - married or single is not really the issue here - wincam
Biblical evidence suggests that Jesus remained normal during His human existence. Conclusive evidence that Mary later became abnormal.