Well if it works here like it works in real life... you whisper it to lil_christian in a PM, then she happens to mention it in a PM to Kim that has nothing to do with you, then Kim mentions it in chat where Roh_Chris sees it, then Roh_Chris askes Tintin if that's true, then Tintin goes off to (whomever your crush is) to ask him if he's going out with you yet.